I'm a prostitute

Prostitutes are those poor, ignorant, diseased, slobs. :From Death of a Salesman

 

willy lomen isn't exactly the font of human wisdom.

 

Every guy pays for sex at some point in his life in some way. I think paying for sex is one of the most honest transactions one can make. I've never done it, but I don't look down on hookers or Johns. I look down on serial killers who kill hookers, the pimps who exploit them, and non addicted coke dealers who basicly make girls do things like this to maintain their habit.

 

Republicans don't like gays, but they love gay prostitutes.

 

I just read the intire topic and I must say.. I couldn't do it myself. Not ever, I'd constnatly be worrying there might have been a tiny rip in a condom or I'd be grossed out by people too much.
But if its by choise that you're doing it and you want to do it, and you do it safe every single time and test regulairly too.. I guess there's not anything wrong with it either. If you like your job; then congratulations on doing what you like and what works well for you.
Must add.. its cool you have a fiance that accepts your life so much; thats a luck only few people have, and this is quite an 'extreme' caze too.

 

He said he "finds" it degrading, who are you to judge his opinion? Don't be so easily offended by ones personal belief? I find his belief to be quite common amongst society.

I'm sure almost anywhere you go that isn't this "open minded forum", you'll find that prostitution is generally frowned upon. But, just because I am saying this, does not mean I exactly agree or disagree with the act of prostitution, I'm just defending that guys right to his opinion, and simply point out how you may have misinterpreted how he worded it.

Personally, it kind of annoys me that guys get bragging rights for the number of girls they have had sex with, but for girls they are automatically potrayed as sluts of some sort, or prostitutes. Shit, with all the guys who go out and have sex and one night stands drunk and slobbering with anyone (as long as they are drunk enough), that the girls would be more worried about the STDs than guys. But then again, anybody does this really, it just annoys me how it's generally more accepted for the guys.

Anyway to the creator of this topic, I find it quite interesting your fiance doesn't mind your job. I don't know how I'd personally feel in his situation but for me something just wouldn't fly about it. Not saying I would be a jealous type or anything, but something would just seem weird, as sex in my opinion is a big thing for a relationship to cherish. Not saying you guys can't still cherish it, just something seems off.

But now that you are 18, (dont know NZ too well), is your fiance unable to support your hobbies that money is such an issue? Personally I find it here that couples generally try and both work some sort of position to fund whatever lifestyle they live. I know no boss, rules, and what not may seem pretty good, but to me (and hey maybe not for you), it just builds good charisma. Jobs can suck, pay can suck, but dealing with these things and not bitching about it can build better character, and maybe a promotion or two may land you in a job that can be long term, 'guaranteed' to pay, and just generally all right. But hey, i don't know you guys, so this is just my 2 cents. Have fun.

 

If you legalize prostitution, rapes would ALMOST disappear and a few other sex crimes as well.

 

Would you be willing to share some stories with us? Weird things that have happened, or odd requests?

 

swooosh...just so you know, that "guys" opinions you were talking about was me-and I wasn't a guy last time I checked...but I can go check again. haha it's cool tho.

 

what exactly does a pimp do , wots tho point in em ??

 

It should be legal.

 

i agree with what swooosh said..

and i have a hard time believing that your "fiancé" is fine with your job.. the only way i could see that happening is either a) thats not really a relationship, no love, just casual sex, b) hes really your pimp, or c) hes a regular customer. lol please dont get offended.
but yea, thats one tough job, its strange that u find it "normal" and that u talk about it so freely. all the prostitutes ive met were ashamed of their job. but hey, good for u.

 

Whats The Point In Pimps??????????????????????

 

theres no point, its another word for slave-owners. pimps own a street or so, and they protect the girls they put on their street against potential aggressors.

 

ive always wanted to know that , thank you

 

Someone I knew in a vague sense,who was a pimp, is now a preacher for some christian pentacostal cult.

 

i think the guys who go to prostitutes are very sad for having to pay for sex.

not every girls wants a relationship so thats not something they can fall back on.

i assume they must be discustingly ugly if they need to pay hard earned cash for a female to touch them.

 

I would gladly pay for sex. I'm mid thirties, married and am decent looking. Sometimes I just want something my wife can't give me. Sometimes I'm travelling and I'm really horny. Sometimes it just turns me on to fuck someone else. Something new so to speak.


Things is, while everyone talks about the risks of infection, nobody has talked about the risks you are avoiding. For example, I had a friend that refused to pay for sex for the same reason that many of the people on this board have expressed. He looked down on it. Yet he would fuck any girl he met in a bar and boast about it.

One of the girls he fucked made trouble for him. Gave him the 'ol Im-pregnant-routine and blew the whistle on their fling. His wife left him, he lost his kids, his home, the lot. All he wanted was sex, nothing more. Had he had sex with a prostitute, he wouldn't have been in this mess. It can be a less complicated way out of things.

Also, my wife knows I see a prostitute regularly. Its nothing personal. We have a good marriage, great kids, very stable home and are finacially very comfortable. SHe just lost all interest in sex one day. Gone. Just like that. She would have sex with me for about a year until she finally came clean and told me about her loss of interest.

Basically, she was fucking me under obligation and suffering through it.

Now, we love each other dearly. We cannot imagine our lives without each other. We have absolutely no intention of splitting up so I just have sex with a prostitute regularly. No strings attached.

 

Something I'm wondering, have you ever had sex with a guy that was aged 16-17?

 

If my life wasn't going as great as it is, I wouldn't mind being a high street prostitute. Choosing only the rich customers I find attractive. I mean, I've had loads of flings and a few one nights stands, I might as well have gotten some money out of doing something I enjoy. There are loads of men out there who would agree to it, though I do think that if they get to a point where they have to pay a woman to have sex with them then there's something seriously wrong with them, in terms of personality and dating strategy.
But hey, I'm not a greedy person, money to me is just paper, so I don't even consider that option.
It's not because I do drugs, no, and neither do I have low self-esteem, I find myself to be a kind, pretty girl.

What I'm trying to say is that there are women out there who are open minded and wouldn't feel guilty about this kinda job. As long as it doesn't get to the point of banging some filthy bum to pay off their heroin debt. Society is just one big fat hypocrite bastard.