ok I know I know that there have been many threads like this one BUT I wanted to make a fresh one. so, ladies, tell me all about your crush on a best friend. how it began, what it was like, and most importantly, how did it end? thanks! blessings xxxxxxxx
I've formed crushes on 3 friends in the past. Two were in high school while I was still unaware that I was gay and another when I was out of high school. None of the situations ended well at all, hahaha. One of the girls in high school ended up moving away and the other just stopped being my friend. I couldn't understand at the time how my behavior around them was freaking them out. I didn't like try to kiss them or grope them, I was just very attached and clingy I guess. The last girl that was a friend, I admitted my feelings to. She told me she was straight, then about 3 weeks later had a girlfriend. Yep. I avoid feelings for friends now at all costs! lol
I think it's hot when women who are my friends want a little more. I would sugggest just crawling into bed when one spends the night and see what happens
Best friend crushes are akward. I am not entirely sure how to handle the situation. My best friend is wonderful, but when you are closeted, you can't exactly tell her how you feel.
Yeah, it is really awkward. Last year, something like that happened, and I was REALLY intensely close to a friend. I'm gay and she said she was straight at the time, but it was obvious that we were in love with each other, in a strange, warped sort of way. It was never spoken, so we never got closer than kisses and the most intense embraces I've ever taken part in in my entire life. It was both beautiful and confusing at the same time. At the end of it, she moved back to Europe, and while I tried to keep in touch regularly, it seemed too much for her, and she couldn't keep it up, which resulted in an ugly, drawn-out "break up", if you can call it that.
This happened three times to me. All of them turned into short, sweet dating periods, and never ended badly because of the dating part. I love dating girlfriends, though. You're such close friends first and then you get to hold hands and kiss and call her yours.
