I been doing Anal with my gf for about 4 years off and on(maybe 10 times per year)...she really hates it don;t know why....I always take my time and use alot of lube. question 1. She complains a lot, about it BURNING her, what is causing that? 2. She feels like using the barthroom while we are doing it and after we're done, she always got to use the bathroom(#2), why? 3. Even with alot of lube if I finger her (anal) with 1 finger is HURTS her a lot but not burn...only burn with my penis or more than 1 finger
Yes, the burning is because she's all clenched up and her sphincter is getting damaged. I think she has issues with anal sex and only does it to please you. She's complaining to discourage you. As for going to the bathroom, she's not emptying and cleaning her bowels beforehand, so the sex knocks loose any poop that's up there.
tell her she needs to quit complaining or you will find anouther dick for her mouth, maybe a dirty sock. NO WHINNING
If you like anal sex so much then buy her a strap on and have her ram you up your ass… Seriously though if she is not relaxed and enjoying it then she will tense up and she will hurt. Also there are some lubes that can burn. Try getting her a dildo to stretch her ass out gently and make sure she uses the bathroom before the ass fuckin… Also get her some good drugs for those nights...
Easy it's just not a her cup of coffee, so don't force around. Not all woman are into it, so you have to bear with her feelings or get a new GF who can enjoy anal.
Is vaseline consider a lube that don't burn? because I have used that Anal eze and got that same result
she obviously doesnt enjoy it, shes so clenched and tense thats reason it hurts, no point in pushing it (in) lol get over it, if u cant live without it get another gf. u keep making her do it you wont be together much longer anyway.
Anal sex can cause: [from Wikipedia] Physical damage Physical damage to the rectum and anus can manifest as generalized ano-rectal trauma, hemorrhoids, anal fissures,[29] and rectal prolapse. An insufficient amount of lubricant can make it especially painful or injurious.[35] Damage is more likely if intercourse is forcible or aggressive, if alcohol or other drugs have dulled sensitivity, if communication is poor, or if technique is clumsy. Incontinence Incontinence has also been reported; the result of the anal sphincter losing its tonus.[36] However a 1997 study published in the American Journal of Gastenerology found no difference in levels of incontence between homosexual man who engaged in anal sex and heterosexual men who did not, and severly criticised an earlier 1993 study published in the Journal of the Royal Society of Medicine which had found that fourteen out of a sample of forty men receiving anal intercourse experienced episodes of frequent anal incontinence for its inclusion of flatulus in its definition of incontinence.[37] [38] Tristan Taormino argues in her book The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women that proper technique, clear communication, and mutual consent can reduce the risk of incontinence. Cancer Most cases of anal cancer are related to infection with the human papilloma virus. The incidence of the disease has jumped 160% in men and 78% in women in the last thirty years, according to a 2004 American study. The increase is attributed to changing trends in sexual behavior and tobacco use. Current use of tobacco increased the incidence of anal cancer four-fold, while a history of multiple sex partners (fifteen or more) or receptive anal sex increased the incidence seven-fold.[39]
Sounds like she isnt relaxed enough, and if she isnt, she will neveer enjoy it. You try jamming something up ur ass when u aint ready for it, its not going to be enjoyable!!
if she's willing, have her go on all fours on the bead.... Then have her back her ass up to the edge. In this position, if a woman relaxes, it is easy for the anal muscles to release. sometimes teh anus even opens a little, just from her being in that position. Having sex with a woman whose butt is propped up in the air like this is much less difficult/painful for the woman.
Incg her up toward the headboard tell her to take a deep breath then pile drive her ass she will squirm forward into the headboard(stuck) or even better back onto your cock!
