Can't get it in!

Okay, I'm a virgin. I bought my first vibrator last night. It looked like a decent size (not too big). It was actually one of the smaller vibrators. I tried it out last night, and it won't go in! It hurts too much and I think I bled a little. I could just barely get the head in and that's it. And I did use lube.

Suggestions?

 

Go slowly. Very slowly and try to be relaxed and turned on. Watch some porn or pictures what ever suits you. Relax and do your thing.

Just a question though? How big is the vibrator?? Heh I just gotta ask

 

Try first your fingers

 

It's like 4 inches long and maybe an inch and 1/2 in girth

 

that thing is small.

i think it's a better idea if you try your little finger

 

i wonder if I popped my cherry since I bled.

 

That's sad, it would have been a great gift to give your virginity to a man on your wedding night.

 

I know it won't help but i have to say...

If something that small won't fit, you are very tight...
which is a major turn-on to 99% of us guys.

Just play with your toy slowly and dont hurt yourself. It'll fit better as time passes

 

find a guy with a small thin penis as a first one

 

take stuff that's smalller... like a big carrot. something that will fit easily. fuck around with it for a coupla' weeks/// then move on to the vibrator again

 

like others have mentioned, start smaller. use a finger, then two. make sure you are turned on and thinking erotic thoughts or watching porn or whatever works for you. dont forget the lube.

what kind of vibe is it? if its one of the "jelly" ones that are clear and fun colours, i find the texture on them is often not conducive to internal use so i throw a condom on mine if i plan on using it internally, so taht the texture changes. its not quite sticky, but its a texture that doesnt slide well on anything, it grips onto skin and such rather than slide and thats no good for being in a pussy

 

got it 1/2 way in today!

 

glad you made progress.

The suggestion of putting a condom on it is a good one. it makes sense.

 

did u like the feeling of of it

 

Yeah, it was all right. It didn't really hurt. That's just as far as I could comfortably get. And I didn't bleed!

The condom suggestion was great by the way. It makes clean-up a lot easier.

 

I just got an idea:
Every part of one's body gets tougher and stiff when it's cold. The opposite is true of one's skin and flesh when one is taking a warm/hot bath.

You might want to try bringing your new "toy" with you into a nice bubble bath. And hey- the best part about that is cleanup would be even easier!

 

I'm in college, so a bath might not be possible.

Last night I got it all the way in! I guess the third time is a charm! I'm just hoping to climax soon!

 

Good for you, now you can buy a bigger one if you want

 

There ya go. As you use it more and more you'll learn how to please yourself better.

And bigger isn't always better. I'm not saying go for a peewee, but the one you have is good enough to cause you pleasure if you use it right. (My ex used to have one of those and I would warm her up with it)

And as someone else mentioned, being tight is a major turn on for most of us guys.

 

Rub your clit while you use the vibrator.