I have been attracted to males and females since my early teens (now 20). Only recently come to turns with being bi-sexual. I obviously don't know if I will settle down with a girl or a guy, but if I end up with a girl there would be no point coming out. I suppose it would be different if I was fully gay in a way. I know that most of my friends have an idea but I think that they assume I am gay (by the way I act and talk etc). I don't want them to think that I am saying that I am bi as an easier way of saying I am gay, if you get what I am saying. My mum has said the common things such as 'so have you got a girlfriend' and when I say no she has joked and said, not even a boyfriend? and laughed. I don't think my mum would mind that I am bi, but not sure about my dad. And I know that a few of my relations are against same sex relationships (I remember my uncle saying a few years back 'they should all be killed'). I feel bad for hiding my true feelings from my friends and I don't want them to be pissed off that I haven't said anything about it before (especially people who I have been close with since start of high school). Also a few have asked me straight up if I have feelings for blokes and I've always denied before. I don't know what to do. Only just accepted it to myself. Any advice?
Just come out as bi ... if your attracted to guys, than you must be. I always said I was straight up until last week, one day I was like, by the way ... haha Not a single person cared. And I feel so much better! Just do it. [peer pressure] haha
Nothing like a bit of peer pressure to give me a kick up the arse and stop being such a pussy hehe. It was a big enough step coming on here for my 'cyber coming out' but I have now accepted so I am ready to say it to people. I'm meeting up with one of my closest mates who I haven't seen in a few weeks next weekend. So I am going to bring it up then, and start to lift this weight off my sholders. I'm at uni atm so will wait until Christmas break before I think about telling my parents, want to do it face to face and have time to talk about it if needed. Thanks for the advice, it's appreciated. Glad you feel so much better, hopefully that in a few weeks time I will be able to say the same Have you come out to your parents yet or just you friends?
haha, I think my mum would die if she ever saw my internet history. But seeing as last time she tried to turn the computer on she just turned the screen off, I don't think that's a possibility :talk2hand
My History Stays Deleted!!! Lol I Have A Bunch Of Friends Who Use My Computer Who Don't Know My Secret Yet. AS FAR AS MY MOMS, SHE DON'T EVEN KNOW HOW TO USE A COMPUTER.
ya, i don't get exactly how they found out, i usually always delete my history... maybe i was so caught up i forgot
