When you fuck someone in the ass, do you spend the time getting them ready, or do you just spear them in a tight bunghole? I prefer to rim her for a while and play with her pussy, making sure she's nice and loose. Then I lube her up good, and stretch her out with a finger or two before trying to fuck her. Then I press the head in slowly and stop, letting her get used to that, then slowly stroke it back and forth, only going deeper as she relaxes. You know you're good to go when she starts pushing back.
if she has given me the "OK" for an ass pounding... I take alot of time to make sure she enjoys every second of it... I've taken four girls anal virginity and only one went bad cause she was doggy-style and backed up on it real fast and hurt herself with a painfully fast penetration. I want her to come back again and again... so always take your time, lube up, and stretch it out!
When we first started my boyfriend and I used to use a lot of prep. But I have discovered that I get highly aroused from a bit of pain during anal sex so lately we don't use much. We do it without lube sometimes which can feel really nice, but I wouldn't reccomend it for someone that's new to having anal sex.
I dont need any prep at all, im always so turned on from foreplay its enough to start anal sex without any problems at all
I need quite a bit of "prep" before I can take it in the tush but after we began I enjoy immensely. One of my favorites. I can reach back and play with my clitoris and have so many orgasms before the boy is done
I love you!!!!!!!!! LoL! Thge rest of you, USE prep! Start with foreplay. Then use as much lube as you can get your hands on! Make sure your sex partner is ready and relaxed enough. Sex isn't supposed to hurt unless your partner likes pain. (I cannot imagine that! But it does happen.) I like to lick my partner's asshole before I fuck it.
actually it is NOT a good idea to use as much lube as you can get your hands on. too much can be a bigger problem than not enough. eww
my man always spends quite a bit of time getting me ready for anal sex.. lubing me up and preparing me is part of the fun.. but there is a fine line between enough lube and too much lube
after some asshole stretching with a dildo and rimming we go at it right away, her pussy juice usually suffices. but for an anal quicky outside she normally carries a tube of anal lube in her handbag.
If you really want to prep up for anal sex, all you have to do is follow the guide at http://tns.bbssm.com as it has helped quite a few people. It's basis is something about being able to accommodate giant dildos, but i'm sure it applies to parking school buses and playing soccer with someones butt hole as well.
As I have a generous girth penetration can be difficult enough, so preparation is essential. My usual method is while masturbating the partner, also to frig the anus with with a lubricated finger, then, as it loosens slightly, to make it 2 fingers, and then 3 fingers, keeping it well lubricated all the time. Even after such preparation initial penetration can still be very difficult, but without it it's absolutely impossible.
It depends really - how big the guy is, how aroused I am etc... If we've already been fucking and I'm on my back, my juices and gravity go some way towards prep - lol Usually he just works his lubed fingers into my ass for a couple of minutes and then I'm ready for his nicely lubed cock.. (often demanding it by then - hehe)
lube, fingering, and butt plug precedes anal, usually vaginal sex first, then switch to anal after the plug has been in for awhile
