I've been with the same guy for 4 years or so...not so long ago we had some serious sexual problems...I basically got to the point that I didn't want to have sex with him anymore (yes, i tried everything to fix it).... Anyway...I have 2 children who love him like a dad...he and I never sleep together...god, we hardly kiss....it's like living with my best friend (no he's not gay)... Do I live in nun-like misery forever? Or date other people behind his back (pretty lame)....or break up and hurt my children(not the best option)...because I would live in this fucked up relationship for the next 10 years if it makes them feel secure.... Any suggestions? Technically...since he and I aren't having sex anymore...are we really "together"?
Basically dont break up... but dont concentrate on the sex part too much..Its like concentrating on studyign o na tesat so much that you loose it all when your about to take the test..Just eat, go on with your daily life, and it will naturally come back. But I dont know....so dont listen to me Ive never been in a relationship before, so do not trust me.
talk to him about his sex drive and why its much lower than before, try to resurrect the romantic side of your relatoinship, light candles, set up a mood, cuddle, nuzzle, kiss. slowly work back up to sex b y stopping at all the fun stages like making out, light touching, grinding, etc
