Obsessed with my hands and hers' ?

My boyfriend is obsessed with my hands! I have super big hands, especially for my height. You know when people do the compare hands with each stuff, well my hands are always longer than other women's hands, and often longer than men's hands.... gross I know.

But my handsome boyfriend that I have been dating for almost 2 year now loves my hands of all things. I learned this early on into our relationship because he would always want handjobs and ask to cum into my "huge sexy hand".

This hasn't been a problem for me because I love having this power over him and it is refreshing to not have a guy obsess over my breasts.

But recently I discovered that one of my good friends has bigger hands than me, and my boyfriend wants me to compare hands with her in front of him... do you think this is weird? I am just so jealous of her now and I hate having her around, I know my boyfriend must be fantasizing about her big hands all the time.

What do you guys think?

 

I am sure he cares about you for more than your hands
but it does sound weird to me that he wants you guys to compare hands....

on a side note, I have small hands for a guy, me and my gals hands are nearly the exact same size

 

I have a thing for hands, also. not so muchh handjobs and such, but I am fascinated by the delicacy and complexity of them.

Anyway, I don't think that the fact she has bigger hands is a big deal. Its not only about your hands if you've been together for a long time.

Chheers

 

Hands are amazing... definitely worth obsessing over. As far as you being nervous about comparing hands with your friend, if your relationship is worth anything, I doubt you have anything to worry about.

 

He says seeing me compare hands with her doesn't mean he likes her hands, he just wants to see what *my* hands would look like compared to a bigger pair? I still think he would freak out if he saw how big her hands are compared to mine.

Duck, would you be uncomfortable with a girl with bigger hands than yourself?

 

I know that it isn't only about my hands, I guess I am just competitve and I hate for him to see me lose.

 

I've known a lot of women who've really liked my hands. I don't really understand it honestly.

The big hands fetish does seem a little weird for a guy. I wouldn't let it get to you though. Try not to feel competitive toward your friend.

Why do you think you like the power over him?

 

mine and my boyfriend's are the exact same size. Like they were made to hold each other

 

That's bloody adorable.

 

Well, we kinda are... bloody adorable that is :tongue:

 

That you guys in your gallery? You're a cute couple.

 

Yeah that's us and thank you!
and talking about hands... here are our hands

 

ok, to the original poster, sorry. I do think that is weird that he wants you to compare your hand with your friends, what's that about? why would he want to compare anything? I dont get it.

 

I'm guessing it has to be a paraphilia. (Fetish)

I'm not sure that comparing her to her friends is healthy for the relationship. But I'll leave it at that.

 

nah, I wouldn't care much

size wouldn't really bother me, the only thing that would get to me, is if they were really manly shaped, that would kinda bother me

but I would trust your boyfriend
if he likes hands, he porbably doens't only like size

if you still don't feel comfortable, just tell him you don't feel compfortable in that sort've situation, it qould make you feel like you are being judged as an object or soemthing of the like, I'm sure hell understand

 

i know i love big hands on a guy, but i wouldn't throw someone i care for aside for someone with bigger hands. i think it's more like a kinky thing...like some guys have a thing for being in bed with two women at once...but he doesn't need to get you two in bed...just get you to stand there and let him look at your hands together.

 

agreed. the focus on hands seems to be beyond a healthy level, imho. i could be wrong though

 

It is hard not to feel competitive with her because of the type of person she is. The whole reason I found out that she had bigger hands than myself was because I told her about my boyfriend's thing for my big hands. She promptly compared hands with me to show me that they were small compared to her hands.

It is not power over him, as much as having something that few other women have and it makes me feel more confident about myself being attractive to him.

 

I don't get it either, but I think Lady of the Freaks probably has hit the nail on the head.

 

Fortunately for me my hands are are feminine looking, even though they are huge.

I know that it isn't just the size of my hands, his previous girlfriend had tiny pretty hands.