Ok. So there's this girl. We used to be really close, I used to go over her house all the time and play video games and watch movies. We hanged out with each other at lunch, and sometimes right after school. Then, my assholeness broke loose. I confronted her about all these outrageous lies she was making to make herself look cool. The lies she was making up were so crazy and there were so many of them ( for example, her dad beats her, her dad does heroine, she used to be addicted to E/weed/alc, she had has her stomach pumped 3 times.... etc... none of these were obviously true). When I told her she was obviously lying (I don't even remember how I said it, but it was in the most proper manner possible), she automatically blocked me on AIM and said she never wanted to speak to me again. That night on myspace she was making emo bullitens and what not. She was quiet at school for about the next week and a half. And she did admit to making those things up. Two years later for some reason I wanna get back with her as friends (we were never going out). I just realized what I lost. Whenever we see eachother in the halls, we meet eyes, then look away. Help me out here, what could I do to get her back? I was thinking about offering her 2ce for free (a research chemical drug-she doesn't mind drugs) and for her to do it with me. Simply asking her "Hey wanna do 2ce with me" is WAY to awkward. Any ideas/help? What ways should I present this to her? I have only one shot and I can't let it slip. Please state other things you think I should do that would help the situation. Please and Thanks.
just tell her straight I know things ended bad between us, but I liked having you as a friend, wanna get together sometime maybe do some 2ce ??
I wish it was that easy. If I did that she would probably be like uhhh.... and walk away. It has to be something different. Im just confused as to what I should do. Thanks though.
if she's gonna be stubborn, she's gonna be stubborn the only thing I could say was hit her somewhere sentimental, but that isn't always easy bring up anything you guys talked/joked about or did that she might remember
Maybe just ask her to get together after school to smoke a joint or something… tell her you want to be friends again, all she can say is no.
The question is, why do some women get so mad when you call them out on a blatant lie? Thats the one that always gets me, lol. Reminds me of one of my previous friends, I was really close with her for about 4 years. After I moved to arizona I went through a spell where I didn't talk to her as much since I had a jealous girlfriend. I went back home to visit family and friends and hung out with her again, I was very excited to see her, but then the whole night she was being very obnoxious, rude and insulting to me for no appearant reason, and I called her out on it. To this day she still will not speak to me. Doesn't make sense.
Well, you picked that other girl over her so that’s probably why she was mad especially if you ignored her for a while. :bat:
You're not big on the social skills, are yeah there champ. She wanted to impress you, and you couldn't just shrug off the obvious attempts and take the compliment but had to nitpick.