Well...For my whole life....I have been looking at the girls.. every year I would fall in love with 3-4 girls.. If not that i would be desperate, always looking at them, like a fucking piece if shit looser... Man, im just saying it suck ass when no girl has ever fucking admired you in your life, when you have to always look up at them It makes me feel like a ****, like a worthless fucking shit. This is what i do. Ive never had a girl friend. No girl has EVER given a shit about me i dont belive this, i wanna fucking jump off a bridge becuase i dont fucking belive in ANY hope with a realtion ship why do people make it look so easy. what kind of person am i...... maybe i dont need a girl freind....becuase my right hand works just fine i guess.
You know. Thats two hall of fame posts for you! I can't understand why you haven't been snatched up either. Nah, I'm just kidding with you. Just be patient and be polite. And drop your standards just a tad, eh?
pizda- your attitude is ruining your life plus how you look at things in your own lens Try thinking and acting positive and maybe things would /will work out for ya bud. Your 18 the worlds not gunna end because you haven't had a gf YET. My first boyfriend was at 17. Chill
I agree with responders. Drop the attitude, swearing, and hostility. Relax, you're only 18. I didn't have my first gf until almost 20. And stop waiting for a girl to come to you because you look at her across the room. I tried it throughout high school (and beyond) and it never worked. And if you think your right hand is a replacement for a girlfriend, then it shows a lacking appreciation for what a relationship is all about. Expect your first relationship to fail. And be ready to move on. After your first relationship or two you will gain the maturity and experience necessary to go after what you want, rather than just acting out of desperation. You need to grow as a person, not just fill the void in your life.
I didnt have my first real gf until I was 20! Anyway... learn to love yourself. Even if you had someone to smother you with adoration, it wouldnt fill that emptiness.
You've probably heard it, and maybe it's a pain in the ass thing to hear, but you're only eighteen. You've got time to find a girlfriend or five or six of them. You just need to stop being so down on yourself. There is nothing more sexy than a confident man. I don't care what you look like, or how you feel on the inside, confidence is key to getting a girl's attention. Listen, I've had a screwed up life. I have dozens of issues. i can relatie to everything you're saying and then some, but I am not all "Woe is me... I'm alone. Nobody loves me. I've never had a boyfriend or girlfriend." I say, "I'm a survivor and I know that I have issues, but so does everyone else. I have a lot to offer someone who can appreciate it and respect it." It's all on perspective Sweetie. Good luck!!!
Confidence?? oh my .....god lol the word is crazy man... lol....i am studying right now at this building , and i was looking out the window right, and this average girl looked at me and she looked like she was about to laugh.. then im like "?" so i look at my face in the computer and it looked miserable as hell so i just started to laugh
boo hoo bboooo hooooooooo look its called life dont be a wussy just suck it up grow a pair and hunt for new chicks girls dont care much for nutless whine bags or maybe thats whats wrong with all these punks i have a buddy did the same thing boo hoo blowed his head off with 20 ga boo wooo
she was probably either smiling at you or laughing at somethign else entirely and of course women have cared about you. were just as chickenshit as youre being about informing another person about our crushes. hell, it took me about 4 years after a crush had started to inform the person that i used to have a crush on them - 4 years of little to no contact and it only came out over msn one night when we were bored enough to talk to each other again
adjust your self-image. The way you feel about yourself on the inside gets projected outwards. Do things that make you feel better about yourself and this negative self image will disappear, thus girls, and people in general will want to be around you.
Adio Visions...yeah you are right....my self image is just horrible, i repel people all the time literally.. Like today at the bus stop i noticed that i was standing in the center of a lot of people but everyone was like 8 feet away from me, it looked like i had a decease or something..I cant even handle talking to people, i personally can not handle my self.. listen i dont know if i am depressed, but i really cant handle being with my self. Personally i dont even feel good about my self in any way.. ok do things that make my self feel good? I just got a Job Internship position from USDA making 20 dollars an hour for 4 years, doing crop research, and bascially breeding plants and studying animals on a farm, i wrtoe a resume, did all this shit.. I still feel like a fucking pile of shit. I saw like a girl freind and a boy freind today, they were having the greatest time ever..i was about to fucking cry..actaully I did cry.. Yes at the fucking coffee shop i was writing an essay and looking at them, and i let out a tear, i held it back, but holy shit man...They were happy as hell...and it even made me feel like more shit, even ten times more then it did a while ago...Damn man...i dont know what i have to do to get a woman...what the hell. Im so confused about life, myself, and i dont know if there is hope in the future.. Yeah...i go to the U.......what the hell man...6 months ago i was a king pimp of the Universe man, i had everything, freinds and a life..now ....i have nothing.. seriously.. Dude my self image? Yes i look like a fuck...everyone hates me, they just hate me so much,, every dude has a women that loves them....damn man...everything that sorrounds me makes me feel like more and more shit, till i just .......... Oh Yeah the Word Pizda means the female genitalia in Russia, becuase i am a fluent russian speaker becuase i was born there and flew on a plane to America... I am too much of a bitch to end my life....i would pussy out...i dont do drugs or live on the edge.. im just a fucking lost soul, a fuckin nobody.....seriously i wanna fucking sleep in a dumpster man...or just like in an alley and rob people thats how i feel.. i feel like a ****....a smelly hairy **** that hasent been washed... wait a minute...i am one... never mind... Ahhhh you know what... forget it !!! i dont want a girl freind!!!!!!! but wait, when i say this and when i see a couple i start to cry... so no.....i kinda need one...... damn... every night in bed is soo lonely.. god damn,. i dont think any of you guys know how i feel.. all these "break up" posts i read baout people breaking up and crying fuck all you guys becuase i never even had a girl to have a break up God dmmmmaaananjnjtnwrjthwaertjbhwe aerwgtparjarargt argoh aight...... now ban me......ban me from your website......i will continue reading posts but ban me... no one needs a shit like me...a fuckin rotten ****.. please i hate my self....i need to get burried a live...
All i want... Is to live a peacefull life.. to have some beautiful girl that i would hold god damn man. its never gonna happen.
it sounds like you just need some real human connections - friendships that are quality, or a relationship. but you also need to build yourself up; if you dont like yourself, you cant expect others to like or respct you, yknow? having a gf may not cure you of envying other couples yknow, especially if your relationship with her isnt totally perfect and fight-free
I can identify with the way you feel, thats why I was offering advice, I remember feeling that way back in high school. I started working out more, changed the way I dressed, changed the way I styled my hair, pretty much changed everything about me that I possibly could, and it honestly changed the way I felt about myself, by the time I was a senior I started dating a lot and it was as if I had finally hit my stride. Not saying that is what you need to do, but that is what worked for me, and its a good feelign to really not care about what other people think of you because you do like yourself. Things always get better man, just hang in there. There is someone out there for ya.
yeah dont be so hard on yourself im 18 and ive never had a boyfriend someday you'll find that special girl be patient and dont let others get you down honestly, who cares what other people think of you and it's not right to be calling yourself ugly you'll find a special someone someday before others can accept and love who you are you have to begin to love yourself
