Hey...need advice here

Discussion in 'Free Love' started by crazy_guy, Oct 17, 2007.

  1. crazy_guy

    crazy_guy Member

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    I wasn't sure which forum to post this in so I came to this one.

    I might be having sex for my first time tomorrow and I was wondering if anyone could give me any advice on the subject.

    I know it might sound kind of childish but I'm sort of nervous so any comments would be great. :)

    Thanks ahead of time.
     
  2. soaringeagle

    soaringeagle Senior Member

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    yea have fun..enjoy yourself & make sure she enjoys herself too
    relax...if u over think things you'll not have the best experience u can
    & dont expect amazing, 1st timesare usualy lil awkward..just enjoy it
     
  3. crazy_guy

    crazy_guy Member

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    thanks.

    Yeah I know it will be kind of awkward...I'm just hoping I don't somehow make an ass of myself. :tongue:
     
  4. soaringeagle

    soaringeagle Senior Member

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    if u make an ass of yourself have a good laugh about it, relax awhile & try again, ...& ya know communications not a terrible thing, u can ask her to honnestly tell u if you make an ass of yourself & what would be better the next time
     
  5. imaginepeace

    imaginepeace Livin' the Dream

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    always be ready to laugh things off. If you arent comfterble enough with the person your with to make an ass of yourself they arent the right person. Sex is supposed to be fun, not stressful or uptight.
     
  6. crazy_guy

    crazy_guy Member

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    I think I could laugh things off with her I just still don't want to have to. :)

    But yeah as you guys mentioned I will for sure have fun...we've made it to like second and close to third base (even though I don't like using that analogy) and I'm thinking we will go all the way so to speak.
     
  7. imaginepeace

    imaginepeace Livin' the Dream

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    Best of luck to you. Sex at first is a very akward experiance, but it normally turns out ok.
     
  8. Lady of the Freaks

    Lady of the Freaks Senior Member

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    clip your nails very short and file them smooth, clean your entire body very well, and wear clean clothes...then go have fun! :)
     
  9. crazy_guy

    crazy_guy Member

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    I didn't think about the nails but I planned on the other things...clean body, clean clothes and fun.:)
     
  10. Lady of the Freaks

    Lady of the Freaks Senior Member

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    yeah, alotta guys don't think about that, but it's important...believe me. [​IMG]
     
  11. elayne

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    One of the best things about sex is that it is different every time, there are
    no standard operating procedures. Its instinctual, so turn off your brain and
    go with your intuition. You will do just fine! :)
     
  12. chuckf2000

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    Chill little dude, you'll do fine. :)

    Communication is the key. Did you tell her it was your first time?
     
  13. peternybro

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    Enjoy Buddy. It's the start of something amazing. I don't know a person male or female for that matter that has tried sex and hasn't liked it.
     
  14. thumper37

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    codoms always do something silly body paints ect this way you can check the map out and mask the nevers haha good luck
     

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