Advice needed (Calling a girl problem)

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by Arshan, Oct 28, 2007.

  1. Arshan

    Arshan Member

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    Hello, I need a little advice here.

    So there is this girl where I work that I have a little thing with. We flirt a lot and talk a lot. I finally decided I would ask her out. She got really happy and excited and said we would work something out for sometime. She gave me her number. I told her I would call the next day. So the next day comes, I was at work with her. I saw her and she waved but didn't say anything else, and didn't really try and talk to me. I saw her later, waved to her, and she just ignored me. I wasn't sure what was going on, but I decided I would try and call her after work. Well I called her twice, and she didn't pick up. So I left her a text message, asking her to call me back. 5 hours later she didn't call me back or answer my text. I'm going to go to bed, and sleep on it, but I was wondering what I should do at this point. Should I call her again tomorrow and leave a voice message, or just forget about her? I will see her at my job again in a week, should I just wait till then and talk to her in person, or just forget about her.

    Thanks.
     
  2. fricknfrack

    fricknfrack Member

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    forget about the head trauma .. sounds like shes playing games who knows really , she might be busy. text her and ask if she wants to go out for cafe?


    call her *67 your no. tho
     
  3. fricknfrack

    fricknfrack Member

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    how old is she
     
  4. Arshan

    Arshan Member

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    She is 22. I don't know if she is playing with my head or not. I don't know if it's a good idea to try agian or just forget about it. Women are hard to figure out :/
     
  5. fricknfrack

    fricknfrack Member

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    ahem excuse me . Women or "some" women .
     
  6. Allonym

    Allonym cheesecake slut

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    eh, next time you see her, go up and say "look, its ok if youve changed yoru minda bout going out with me, i still like you as a person and wouldnt mind being friends" so taht she has an easy out if shes changed her mind (assuming yoiu want to maintain the relationship that is)
     
  7. audiovisions

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    Simple solution- stop trying:)

    She is playing the ol hard to get routine. It backfires as soon as you show that you are losing interest(at least pretending to)
     
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