This subject is still iffy for me... so apologies in advance. I met someone and yes its a guy, im a guy. I think he might be gay... but i truly do not know. We are pretty close physically, never kissed or anything but he's rubbed my chest and i've rubbed his and stuff like that. I don't want to make any moves because i don't want to scare him incase he isn't and i care for him, and i've never told anyone about the gay situtaion , we are together as much as possible. He's says things to me like "i want to be with you", and "i'd hang out with you over anyone". He had a GF and broke up with her about a month after i met him, and he's always talking to other girls, and yes i do get jealous, but something just keeps telling me that he likes me, and i really like him. Has anyone had anything like this happen to them? He could very easily be gay becuase there are so many little signs. I don't know what questions to ask really, but if anyones dealt with anything like this please give me advice one what i should/shouldn't do. thx in advance
it definitely sounds like he's interested. You're not going to know until either you make the move or he does. Or, if you want to be positive that he likes you, talk about how you like guys and and see how he reacts. That's what my gf did before she made a move. First she took my hand and asked if I had a problem with her holding my hand. And then she plain out asked me if I ever thought about being with a girl. And when I said yes she knew it was okay to proceed from there. You should do something similar.
Follow your heart, the hints are there. Chap gave some good advice on going slow...but going forward. Good Luck to both of you.
Yes, I have actually. I have a very, very close friend named Bryan and we've done stuff like that before. We usually lay in each other's arms and talk about how we feel about each other. We haven't made moves on each other, but I do think I'm in love with him. I don't want to ruin my relationship with him, especially since he's the closest person to me (even closer than my family) and I couldn't bear to lose him. Follow your heart. If you truely love him, tell him how you feel. I'm sure, because he's been giving you so many hints, that he would be either delighted or shocked (in a good way).
