What's the chances? *Responses Appreciated*

Discussion in 'Sexual Health' started by ImagineMe, Oct 27, 2007.

  1. ImagineMe

    ImagineMe Member

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    Hi. I'm sixteen and have been dating my boyfriend for a year. We have never had sexual intercourse with each other or with anyone else. (He's from a very religious home, and scared to death of pregnancy, etc.) I know these types of questions have been asked again and again.. but any response would be appreciated.
    Tonight he came on me. (I was sitting ontop of him) My underwear was completely soaked through and I know there was some at the opening of my vagina. I got up, went to the bathroom, and changed underwear and attempted to wipe everything off, but it was about ten minutes after. I didn't realize he'd even came on me at first, and that was just because I was looking to wipe it off of him about five minutes after he'd came and *suprise* there isn't any there. It's all between my legs, absorbed by my underwear and apparently my body. There was alot of rubbing and contact after he'd ejaculated between us.
    What is the likelihood of pregnancy occuring? I know that it's a possibility.. but i've gotten SO many different answers on how often it actually occurs on the internet.. that i'd like a straight up specific answer in my situation. I've saw everything from it's impossible to it's a fair chance.
    Thanks, any response or advice is appreciated. (We will deff. be using protection, even if we're not having full out sex from now on.)
     
  2. Allonym

    Allonym cheesecake slut

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    chances of being pregnant from that are really freakin low, to be honest

    but ask him to tell you when hes ejaculated next time, so you can clean up earlier... just common courtesy
     
  3. The Lone Wolf

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    I'd go to a clinic and get the "morning after" pill. I wouldn't take any chances.
     
  4. Duck

    Duck quack. Lifetime Supporter

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    ^ are you kidding me?

    the chances of getting pregnant from that are undoubtedly exponential lower than getting pregnant while on the pill
     
  5. The Lone Wolf

    The Lone Wolf Member

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    Well, she said some apparently was absorbed by her body. Maybe I'm misunderstanding what she means by that.
     
  6. Duck

    Duck quack. Lifetime Supporter

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    ^ yes, but even if some of the sperm survive the harsh conditions of the panties, and make it through them, they somehow have to make their way down into the vagina (which is basically impossible, as even when sperm is inside the vagina it has trouble surviving, so the lips and what not would surely kill them), and then the sperm has to find an egg, which means she has to have one in her chamber

    the chance of her getting pregnant from this are at most .000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000001%
     
  7. ImagineMe

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    Thanks for the responses.. about Plan B (morning after pill).. that was a thought, but I didn't follow through on it. First, I wasn't sure where around here carried it, and after thinking about it.. I wouldn't use it anyway.. just a belief thing, mostly.. and no, lone wolf.. you're not misunderstanding.. what I meant was.. there was definatly some in there.. the undies were mesh and it didn't go anywhere but there, and due to all of the rubbing/friction etc afterwards.. my undies were practically inside me, along with his stuff. btw, since then I went online and out of curiosity created an "ovulation calendar" (I had no idea when that happened during my cycle before now). I thought maybe it would help to set my bf's mind at ease about it by saying.. look.. I'm not even ovulating right now. That kinda backfired, however, because according to it this week is prime time for ovulation for me. Anyway, again, thanks to everyone.. anymore advice or opinions are still very much appreciated.
     
  8. fibre1

    fibre1 Banned

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    What could happen from that contact of his semen with your vulva is the transmission of a sexually transmitted infection like genital herpes. To get pregnant his semen needs to go deep inside you into you cervix -- if it's at the opening of your vulva you can't become pregnant. So if it seeped deep inside your vagina there is a chance of you becoming impregnated, the physical purpose of a female orgasm is to suck semen up into your cervix via your contractions, so it would be more difficult to get pregnant if you didn't have an orgasm. What you did is dangerous and I don't advise you to repeat it, because someone may lie to you that they are a virgin, or even have sexually transmitted infection contracted by another means such as a blood transfusion or something else you don't know about.

    Only you know if his semen seeped deep inside of you, I recommend you get a full sexually transmitted infection test and pregnancy test to be on the safe side, and whatever the results, take this as a warning not to let a boy's or man's fluids come in contact with your vulva or mouth in the future, except when you are in a life-partnership like marriage. If you want any more info. or help, or just want to talk, feel free to PM me. :)

    Take care, Mark.
     
  9. fibre1

    fibre1 Banned

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    Be aware and educated that hormonal pills such as 'morning after pills' and the female contraceptive pill cause hormonal changes to your body, which cause changes such as breast growth (in a bad way, make you look like you've been pregnant,) and have other health risks. It really is better for your health to not take these contraceptive meds., and practice abstinence from sex and orgasm, and save sex for a long term life relationship like marriage. This will bring lasting health and happiness, while casual sex would be fun while it lasts, but not rewarding overall. Many people have made the mistake of thinking it would be a good idea to have sex casually, and then end up with unwanted pregnancies and incurable conditions such as herpes, or get their fertility ruined by other infectious diseases such as chlamydia.
     
  10. Cutted

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    Unless he or you inserted a finger with sperm on it into your vagina shortly after he came, there is no chance of you getting pregnant. Sperm does not like fresh air, and dies quickly in that environment.

    But the two of you are playing an adult game, so be more careful next time.
     

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