Hey! First off, im sorry for not being on in a while just some bad things happend tho the one good thing to happen turned to be a disaster. I met some one Very cute,funny,smart,Goregous body and heart but only after a month of dateing him he proposed to me to an extent i guess i love him but not sure i love him he that much, i dident give an answer i just kinda turned tail and ran from him havent talked to him since , its been about 4 days now i dont answer his phone calls and i avoid him most all the time i know im wrong in my actions but it just seems hes moveing to fast i know ive hurt him alot and not sure how to approach him about it um any help or advice that could be offered would be great thanks
Man you've just got to be honest and clear with him. Tell him that you think the relationship is moving too fast. Make sure he knows that you really do like him a lot, but that you're not ready to make that kind of committment yet. Tell him that it scared you. Hopefully he'll understand.
It would be a shame to lose someone who cares for you soo much.Also avoiding him is'nt the most mature way to handle this espicially since his only *crime is proposing to you lol.That's pretty hurtful.Sounds like you care for him alot too.So why are you avoiding him??If things are going to fast you need to tell him and reach some understanding and comprimise.If you don't want to do that you've got a bigger problem.Probably just going too quickly for you,sounds like to me.I'd feel the same way.Does'nt seem like something that can't be solved just try talking to him...... J
Amp and Joey are right, you really gotta talk to him. I understand your feelings though cause I've been with guys I really like a lot when out of the clear blue they come up with the "you and me forever thing". Kind of blows you away(no pun intended). Imagine how he may feel, really in love with you, says so and Boom, you're gone. He's gotta be wondering what he did wrong, feeling hurt or rejected, whatever...talk to him. It's the right thing to do for both of you. Good Luck, Steve
