a freind of mine has been tryig to get with this girl for about 6 months now. she has repedidly told him that shes is best freinds with him but nothing more, and that there will never be anything more. alas he contunies to try anyway. i just recently started hanging out with the same girl, and we really hit it off. she aims me to hang out. i like her a lot, and she told another freind of mine she really enjoyes spending time with me and and likes my additude and outlook a lot. so i have two questions i guess. first would it be messed up for me to attempt to date this girl knowing my freind likes her, even though his opportunity has come and gone with her. and while im on a role here, does it sound like she LIKES me or just likes HANGING out with me. my freind told what she said what i type pretty much word for word, and i havent talk to him about it since so i cant ask him yet. L
i would wait for her to make it glaringly obvious that she likes you, so you aren't taking a chance. as far as your guy friend.....its probably going to hurt him a lot if you date her, but i've always thought that thats a stupid reason not to date someone. i mean, damn, its kind of selfish to say "i can't have her, so you can't either." but you should definately talk to him about it before you ask her, and consider his feelings as your friend. remember the saying, "bros before hoes"