what to do what to do!

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by tomtomp, Oct 24, 2007.

  1. tomtomp

    tomtomp Member

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    a freind of mine has been tryig to get with this girl for about 6 months now. she has repedidly told him that shes is best freinds with him but nothing more, and that there will never be anything more. alas he contunies to try anyway.

    i just recently started hanging out with the same girl, and we really hit it off. she aims me to hang out. i like her a lot, and she told another freind of mine she really enjoyes spending time with me and and likes my additude and outlook a lot.

    so i have two questions i guess.

    first would it be messed up for me to attempt to date this girl knowing my freind likes her, even though his opportunity has come and gone with her.

    and while im on a role here, does it sound like she LIKES me or just likes HANGING out with me. i honestly was told that a lot but my freind just that she likes spending time with and and stuff.


    L:)
     
  2. Pocahontas

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    it sounds like she likes you..
    i know ur friend will think its soo wrong but if two ppl like each other its okay..sucks for the other :( but the truth is its okay and wrong for ur friend to try to stop it
     
  3. raul7

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    Your friend needs to harden up and get over it, you're not doing anything wrong, you can't stop someone from being attracted to you either - if he asks you to try to, he's a dickhead.

    If two people like each other the third party needs to deal with it, otherwise they're being incredibly selfish.
     

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