Hello All, I've come across a situation that I'd like some opinions on if at all possible. Not too long ago I managed to find a family just up the street from me that enjoys a naturalist lifestyle within the confines of their home and have welcomed me in their home anytime I'd like as my wife wants nothing to do with as she says "running around the house nekkid". I've been to their house quite a few times now and feel very comfortable there (yes my wife knows and has been very quiet about the matter). At any rate, at times when I visit the family I find myself trying to control my erections and have received very valuable input from a veteran that has graciously been entertaining my many questions. I have come to terms that erections happen and have had fewer of them lately but I have experienced something a little new now. I frequently find the 16 yr old daughter of the family I visit looking at me when I have erections. She looks at it more than I think is necessary and haven't mentioned anything about it to anyone. She's the only one of the two daughters that participates within her home but not sure what to do or say about this. Is it something that needs to be said? It doesn't make me feel too uncomfortable but having her stare at my penis more and more these days may give the wrong impression to someone in her family. I'm by no means a man that has a huge penis..I'm average (so I think) but when I get hard, she just seems to stare.....any thoughts? Thanks all!
My opinion: If you feel it's becoming a problem, talk to her parents about it and let them know about your concerns. If they haven't noticed anything themselves, they might appreciate knowing about it. If they already know but don't care, then you can put your mind at ease about it. Either way, if you're worried about the possibility of wrong impressions, it's probably better that you bring it up first.
I agree... while you don't want to flaunt your erection... it is a normal health male function. Speak with the parents.. bet they are fine with their daughter seeing an erection in a non threatening home situation...
It seems that some naturists fantasize about nude socialising with neighbours. Very few of us ever actually do that. At home while I'm nude at times it is in private and I honestly don't know how I would handle it if a neighbour happened to call round and find me gardening in the buff. May be bluff it out, may be panic I really don't know. On beach it is different because nudity is expected and if you are with friends they either be nude or not worried by your nudity. Should one of your neighbours happen to see on the beach it could be awkward but you are just one of many there. If the door bell rings I have a robe handy just in case!
Amazing! The oldest child was 16 in October 2007 and here we are in May 2012 and danged if she ain't the same damn age! I didn't used to believe in time travel, but this sure has me a wonderin' now!
More perceptive than I was! Thanks. Now this 16 year old girl is more like 19 or 20 and maybe ferndaddy and "Girl who stares at Penis" have eloped and have 2 or 3 kids by now!