A couple of questions actually... 1. Is there REALLY such a thing as blue balls? And if there is, what ARE the symptoms? 2. Mostly for the guys here... If you are in bed with a woman & awake with an erection, she starts giving you a BJ & you lose your erection, what do YOU think is the reason you would lose it?? Thanks for any & all input here.
well, blue balls are just a term, it's when your balls hurt from not cumming, so if you jerked off for too long without cumming, your balls might get sore
So, if a guy just got off the night before, and six hours later he has an erection again & is complaining of having blue balls, I should know better? Could stimulating the prostate cause pain in the balls??
it's not from stimulation so much, it's from having an erection for a long period of time with no release, well for me anyway
this can happen for many reasons, not all the woman's fault. one: the man is distracted. for example during the BJ he recalled something from work. two: the man is tired. when tired, the pennis can sometimes disobey the brain. three: the woman is just not good enough.
1. its a term, and yes, your balls can get sore, ... mostly from being arroused and horny for a period of time, without doing anything about it. I can get it for example if I'm at work, and my GF is texting or iming me some hot messages. But NEVER, I say NEVER have sex with a guy who uses the excuse of sore balls as a way to oblige you to have sex with him. first: sex wouldn't be fun, cause he would cum after 5 seconds ... second: if he uses that as an excuse, just tell him to go jerk off in the bathroom. I'm not saying you can't have sex if your BF has got sore balls, he can get it if you make him horny for a long time, and stay teasing him, but you don't touch him. If you continue like that, and he has sore balls, just keep on teasing, and you can make him cum just by opening his pants 2. it's like wild boy says, can be different things, not always the girls fault, just talk about it and you'll know. Talking is the key to good sex. have fun!