I am an 18/m and have just got my first girlfriend. We have had sex three times so far but I haven't had a orgasm with her. I've heard that young men cum really quickly even too quickly. I'm not sure if somethings wrong with me. We spend about an half an hour in foreplay and a half an hour in sex. We have been doing it missionary style alot of the time. I find that my body just gets really tired. Not sure if its the thrusting or the holding myself over her body. I exercize and eat well too 0_0 If you have any impute I would be very greatful.
It just happens... My boyfriend is the same way. Cause we both are young. Just, change positions. Have her one top, or something. be creative.. :] It helps.
Sex is physically very draining. Are you physically fit ? Try walking everyday a few kilometres, get your fitness up. And eat real food not junk that has very little in it. Oh yeah, spend a lot more time on foreplay, get her soaking wet before you even think about entering her. Otherwise she won't get anything out of it. Just understand that it takes quite awhile to build a women up to orgasm. Just keep caressing her for a few hours, when your arms start aching change over to your other arm, and continue on from there. Learn to kiss passionately and very gently this is also foreplay. I like to plan ahead for the end of the week, the best time is just before their period is due, tease them for a week, just things that turn them on, and be so nice to them, lots of cuddles, and take them out for lots for dinners, pamper them, walks along the beach ... Kiss them gentley around the neck all the time :reddevil: never ask them for sex, just keeping teasing them, caressing them, kissing them ... Never use the stick to get them into bed, use the carrot !!! ha ha ha :tongue:
The hottest girl i ever boned took me like 2 hours to cum. i thought i was gonna go quick because that's what i do when i'm with a really hot girl. So naturally i start off thinking about the carreers of my favorite sports stars narrated by john madden. 30 minutes later she's cum twice and i'm thinkin "alright... time to close the deal" but by then i was at the point where no matter how into it i got i it wasn't happening. at that point i was still hard as chinese math, but i had desensitized my cock. 1 hour and 30 mins. later i finally got it out. that girl became attached at the hip to me after that. Little did she know that the greatest sex of her life were products of john madden, tim brown, ty cobb, babe ruth, jackie robinson, peyton manning, and many others. It was like the Espy awards in my head that first 30 minutes.
