so my boyfriend is fucking amazing at eating me out, but for some reason it takes me forever to cum. i can tell it frustrates him, but i just cant get off. like, it feels so good, i just cant handle it, i start to get ultra sensative and i have to make him stop, i have tried to just suck it up, but it just becomes too much, any suggestions? i really want to finish. please give any advice.
You should maybe suck him off at the same time, by concentrating on him this may make your mind digress enough for you to enjoy it but not think about it.
or more foreplay, before he goes down on you. taht way youre more turned on ahead of time, which means he spends less time directly on your clit, thus reducing the chances of overstimulation and sensitiivity
other stimulation might help, iv had girls that liked holding hands while i ate them out or anal stimulation with a finger
i agree with Allonym, more foreplay. Maybe you'll like him to lick your upper inner thighs for awhile before zeroing in on the clit. Also could get him to use less pressure, see if that helps.
My GF used to be like that, ultrasensitive. Eventually, I broke it from her. He should lick until you start to feel wierd and then he should start kissing you very naturally all over. Then when your turned on again he can start licking again. It's almost like taking a break from the pleasure. Have you tried switching positions. Like get on your knees and have him lick you from behind. You can also sit on his face from front or back. Just change it up during the intercourse. Grab his hair too, but dont rip it out. He will probably think it's hot anyway. Just imagine what you REALLY want to get from oral sex and make it happen. Dont be shy and just relax. Dominate, submit, just whatev.