Hi, I'm going to have sex with this girl soon *hopefully within the next 3-4 weeks*. The problem is that I'm virgin and she isn't. Oh and she has no idea that I'm a virgin * I played it off really well* OK, here are a couple of questions I have: - When I masturbate, I can last anywhere from 5 minutes to 10 minutes before I cum. The thing I don't understand is how some people can last for like an hour or an hour and a half. Do they cum multiple times or the just stay hard for that long. - Is a 5 and a half inch penis good enough to please a girl?
Check out my ten techniques to stop premature ejaculation thread in the "Sexual Health" Forum od "Love and Sex". PM me for further advice if you need more help. Going for an hour or an hour and a half is possible before having an orgasm, but is exhausting and could make you and/or her sore if you don't use enough lube. I have done it for that long, but with short breathers between orgasms. 5.5 inches is plenty to please a woman (just below average size), and it is not how big or long it is, but how you use it.
Secret is to unload ahead of time. If you can, try to rub one out about 10-15 minutes before you have sex. Have her go down on you or something until you cum (if she is willing of course), then wrap that sucker up and go at it. I usually cum in the first 10-15 minutes, but after that I'm good for hours!
Care more about your foreplay and cunnilingus skills than the size of your dick as those give most women more pleasure than just straight up sex. The Art of Love Making
for me the secret to lasting hours wasalways caring more aboutgiving then getting, if you are in a hurry to cum u cum quick, but if u just wanna make her cum over & over & over..you can last much longer &..u should be honnest about being a virgin
man. once you hook up with a few chicks it gives you soo much more confidence about what your doing, and you realise your suddenly hookin' in with chicks all the time. i wouldve used to be to afraid to put myself out there and say somthing, or do somthing even if it was probably stupid, at least now i risk my ass, and everytime its worked. so there you go. i still have a shit load of learning to do tho.