I'm losing my touch

how come nobody listens to their parents anymore?

 

^ I really dont know. Some parents are crazy but I think kids like to think its cool to say fuck you to their parents.

 

haha if anyones heard that russell peters standup
go clean your room
fuck you mom

 

shut the fuck up man.

i dunno about you, but when i believe in something, i stand up for it. i dont cower in the corner in fear because mommy said it was wrong...

whats totally fucked is my mom is 100% cool with me drinkin alcohol in the house, despite her struggle with addiction to it in the past.

i dont give a fuck who it is, trying to tell me to steer clear of one of the safest, and arguably most beneficial plants on the face of this planet is absurd. fuck that.

lack of respect? i guess you could say that, based on one post, and zero knowledge of my relationship with my mom, or what has happened in our lives. so yeah, maybe im disrespectful for smoking in my moms house when she dont want me to. im gonna smoke either way, so i can do it in the safety and comfort of my own home, or i can drive around and smoke, or smoke at a friends and risk getting pulled over with shit in the car...

so yup, i completely lack respect and i am totally immature, you hit the fucking nail on the head man... must take a real intelligent person to label someone based on one post, without likely contemplating both sides of the debate.... incredible man, truly incredible.

what i dont respect, is people with a bias against something due to 50+ years of propaganda, fallacy, and lies... why the fuck should i listen to somebody who has no logical argument grounded in reality, and instead formulates opinions based on bullshit? she pays the bills. okay, yeah i respect that. true, its her house.

if shes so against it, she can kick me out. and she has yet to do so. basically shes grabbing at straws, trying to find a reason why i shouldnt be able to smoke, she knows damn well its not nearly as bad as she would like to think... if i get kicked out, i get kicked out. im not gonna change my ways because somebody has built up this hell-fire sermon against marijuana based on lies for the past 40 years...

im tired of people trying to control MY body. MY body. the only person who can dictate what goes in it, is myself. so maybe you will sit there with your tail between your legs, and listen to whatever people tell you, regardless of the integrity of their argument, but not me, i fuckin stand up for what i believe in.

also, by your same argument... you shouldnt be smoking weed either. its illegal in your country. if i shouldnt be allowed to smoke because my mom provides for me (food, a home, whatnot), you shouldnt be allowed to smoke weed either. your government does a lot for you, it keeps you safe, gives you a place to live, and freedom (to an extent)... so why would you be so fuckin irresponsible and break their laws? and spit on all that theyve done for you?

think things through before you judge someone because you've got a few years on them age-wise.... you are in no position to dictate my life, based on YOUR beliefs, so how about shutting the fuck up huh?

 

I had to go to a christian school for all of my life! It sucked! If some kid had weed or alcohol on the property they were automaticly kicked out. Thats why i would smoke right in front of the gym in the parking lot! They also did random drug test every month. I got really lucky and never got tested for the 6 years i went there. Every year they used to have use sign a contract saying that we would not smoke or drink at all. Lol. Some kids told the dean that my buddy had a really bad pot problem but didnt smoke that much at all. They drug tested him, he passed it and still had to go to counciling for the rest of the year...

 

That's exactly my school. And like... the teachers brag about the trouble they get kids in. And when a teacher finds out about a kid that does drugs or alcohol, they call them on it right away.

But my English teacher, the one that knows after smelling, apparently went to a private school too, and she told me today that she absolutely hated it, and hated all the lies and everything that comes from these school. And she told me that's why she likes me is because she can sense it in me, and that she's cool with me smoking, she just doesn't want me directly saying anything because she doesn''t want to be in trouble if something happens

 

Nice post, and I agree with you on most counts. However, for her to listen to you at all you gotta show her you're responsible. Again... getting caught about 50 times shows you're not & you KNOW she don't want you doing it, specially in her house but you don't care and just keep getting caught. Way to show your maturity. It's just this "fuck her, she's dumb" attitude that annoys me. Yeah most people don't know the true facts and won't accept what you say, but if they don't want it around, then don't bring it around. It would make me sad/upset honestly if my Mom were to be like "fuck you". To know I've frustrated her/got under her skin just because of my own needs DOES NOT make me happy, like it seems to for some. But instead, you just spark up again, causing her to be even more angry/pissed off/confused. You seem to care more about getting high than having a good relationship with your mom, your birthgiver and caretaker. You just may regret this a few years down the line, whether you do or don't get kicked out.

Btw, I never said it's wrong to smoke or any of that shit. Your whole "it's illegal there" is completely irrelevant to what I was on about. All I was saying is respect her wishes to keep it away from her/the house. Not stop completely because she doesn't want you to. If you're smart about it(you obviously haven't been) this whole problem is COMPLETELY non-existent, so rather than having an effed up home life, everything is normal and smiles around. Peace, and I'm also not one to let others tell me what to do with my body/life etc, but bro.. you have to learn compromise. PeAce!

 

i hear what youre saying.

but first of all, ive showed her more than enough im responsible. ive never really been in any serious trouble my whole life, never caused her any cocern about my safety or anything like that, never been arrested....

i know what you mean... i too am usually not one who is for the "fuck you mentality", but at this point what the fuck ever. my point is she has no reason to be upset... shes openly said shes completely fine with letting me drink/have other people drink in the house, which puts a lot of risk on her ass if something were to happen. not to mention the possibility that we could all be killed very easily by alcohol.

it sucks that it upsets her... contrary to what youve said, no it does not make me happy. my point is she has NO reason to. she should be a lot more concerned about alcohol and cigarettes which kill how many people each year? instead, shes all for it, but no weed. its just fucked up. im sorry if she likes to have the wool pulled over her eyes, but not me.

i have a good relationship with my mom. i do a fucking LOT for my mom, we dont have a whole lot of money so im always helping out at home, and takin care of HER shit. for example, if i notice we are almost out of napkins, or batteries or something, i always take care of it without her having to ask or anything. ive been doing it forever, our schedules dont always mesh well, so i chip in around the house when im home, and take care of some shit for her when shes at work. its mutually understood that she is appreciative of that, and it helps take some stress off her day.

ive always had a good relationship with my mom, so its not the issue of my lack of compassion here, its the issue of me standing up for what i believe in.

and dont get me wrong, i show her each and every single day im responsible enough to be doing something as small as marijuana. i mean fuck, i do good in school, im always on top of my grades, i work, drive, dont get in trouble... the whole nine yards. and like i said i do a lot for my mom.

i think its come to the point where she is realizing that im still me, im still a good guy, i still got a bright future ahead of me... and shes just struggling because she thinks im better than that or something, idk. like i said, its kinda the unspoken agreement that im allowed to smoke now, which was exactly my goal all along. i never WANTED to hurt my mom, nor did i get any satisfaction out of it, i did what i did for what i believe in, and its working.

it will still be a while before shes completely comfortable with it, but ive hopefully shed enough light on the issue for her to ease up a little bit. the other day it was quite apparent i was high, and she even made a joke about it, and fixed me a sandwich.

so yeah, its not like im one of those kids who says fuck everyone who loves me and fuck what they think, though i do know it may have kinda sounded like that. i take things into consideration, and i try my best to be the best person i can- without compromising what i support/believe in.

 

Yeah I totally get you bro, and I wasn't implying you do shit like this just to make you happy even if it seemed so, but I know alot of teenagers nowadays are like that and it makes me sick. Like I said in my previous posts I do agree on most points, especially the tobacco/alcohol shit and how that is in fact much worse than weed. I've sort of just grown to.. ya know, accept what is as what is. Millions of people will never change their outlook on bud because of all the bullshit they read/were told, so I don't try in the least to change their minds because the reward of doing so is usually a big-ass argument that is essentialy between two brick walls. I KNOW my Dad would flip/be upset if he knew me and my brother's smoked weed so we have never told him and probably won't. Not because we're ashamed, but the hassle just is not worth it. Maybe in a few years if I did tell him that I'd be smoking since 16, he may think "Wow, really? Funny how I never noticed you change in anyway, or begin to PHAIL at things or lose motivation."... and this causes him to question the law on the plant himself. This would give you the chance to show your maturity and that you smoke weed sometimes cuz it's nice, not ever because you needed to.....

DingDongMerrilyOnHigh...LetsGetFuckinHigh!

 

okay, so lying to your dad is a responsible thing to do?

like i said, i dont really wanna deal with the sketch that comes with that... if i fuck up once, and have to lie my ass off, a parent is bound to think "WTF are they on?" and it usually only raises further suspicion and they could think its something a lot worse than weed.

if i just tell her, i figure at least im being honest about it... thats gotta be worth somethin. and i told her i wouldnt get arrested with it, and that im responsible and smart with it and about it... thats gotta ease some of her fears.

 

No, not responsible per say but he truly has no reason to know(don't live in same house.. since 6 years) and I feel I have no reason to tell him. I've never properly spoke to him about it, but he does know I love Weeds, the TV program . Like I said before, if I ever do tell him it'll be in a few years... and I'd be a success then(haha well.. at least, in my own way) and he'd know I was cautious and smart enough to do it without getting caught/fucking up my life. Imo that shows I can be responsible and handle myself pretty damn well. I can't possibly be lying about a subject we never even spoke about, can I? /rhetorical