Alright, well here's the story. I'm a 14 year old girl. 2 days ago, my sister taught me how to masturbate. Yesterday I did itb8 times and today I did it 12 (Planning on more). Is it unhealthy to do it this much? Also, I have an unrelated question, if I see a naked girl and I start to get wet down there, does that make me a lesbian?
It's only unhealthy if you let it become an obsession. Just discovering it, I highly doubt it's an obsession yet, so go ahead and explore! It's much much healthier to get yourself off than risk pregnancy or STDs through sexual intercourse. And I haven't found many girls who aren't aroused by the sight of another girl naked, though, I am bicurious (I can't say bisexual for sure, as I've never been with another female to decide). You're 14, your hormones are likely through the roof, so don't worry about how high your sex drive is.
I agree with ramona. It's normal and healthy. You've just discovered it so don't worry that you do it a lot. You'll settle into a routine soon and find out how often you need it. I also wouldn't worry about being aroused by other girls. Women are sexy and beautiful and have been the focus of art since humankind learned to draw on cave walls. That you find that arousing sometimes is perfectly normal. Just let your mind wander - your fantasies are safe...
No, but it does make you a fantasist! Done quite a bit in your first two days of masturbating, haven't you? You have posted 13 times today and already masturbated 12 times and masturbated someone else!!! - What a busy girl (actually, I think you are a pervy bloke!) where do you find the time? Careful, or the cat will get your tongue.
When we're young at puberty, it's quite understandable to discover sexuality, just beware you're young and there's a lot of pervs willing to offer themselves as aid just to get advantage of your youth. Don't talk to older people yet unless you only limit this to a forum :talk2hand But for older people, say over 25 years old, it's better to get used to a couple because masturbation is a sign of loneliness and social issues when a person is old enough to engage with the opposite sex. I'd suggest guys try an escorts resort or an erotic adult vacation which is available in many places (www.charlisangels.com used to be my hangout ). And don't worry, when masturbation is discovered, it usually provokes anxiety at first ( hence the frequency ) then you will master at the art of it. Think again if someone told you about being bi, try some boys and see what happens.
