am i gay?

Discussion in 'Coming Out and Confused!' started by doughnut123, Oct 12, 2007.

  1. doughnut123

    doughnut123 Member

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    i guess that i shouldn't be asking that question because only i will know the answer to that but i was wondering if anyone could help me decide if i might be.

    the whole story is that i've been wrestling with the idea for a while because when i masturbate i like anal stimulation and not like just a finger to stimulate the prostate but bigger things like "actual" sized objects. so i'm wondering if that may be an indicator of my preference or just some fetish i have.

    thanks for the help.
     
  2. *Andy*

    *Andy* Senior Member

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    The fact that you like playing with your butt is by no means an indicator of whether you're gay or not. Many straight people do it just because it feels good :)
     
  3. yarapario

    yarapario Village Elder

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    Your fantasies and emotional interests are going to tell you a whole lot more than the stimulation thing. Do you imagine you have a guy for a partner, do you have crush's on other boys? Have you been sexually active or do you think about being sexually active with other guys. THese are not questions for you to answer here necesarily, more just things for you to think about. If you have more questions though feel free to ask.
     
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