best way get a book on multiple orgasms. Build the energy up , breathing is important , let the energy sink to your abdomen then rise up your front thro your tongue to roof of mouth , head, then down your spine and reconnecting where it started. You need to be relaxed to let the energy flow , but warmed up too- so it takes time to build the energy up- start with oral. OR , u could start by sending me a pic ( only joking
yes definitely , all your fault .Oh and hes useless too No seriously , its in part down to both persons. If u cant get em on your own its likely to be very hard for him to give you them. You need to know how to direct him maybe. Start with 20 mins oral ,and "warm up" - and practice , practice. If u read the books , theres lots of techniques - clit stimulation , g -spot , u-spot etc etc.6 shallow thrusts then 2 deep , or circular thrusts are amongst the variety. Deep , well paced breathes too. As youre only 18 , I suspect knowing where to go will improve your circulation , and u'll fairly soon get what ure looking for. Think stimulate the energy , trap it , build it and circulate it.Dont let it "escape" too soon by coming when the stimulation is low. Its hard to explain without demonstrating
Foreplay, Foreplay, Foreplay !!!! Your partner needs to caress you all over (inner, outer, sides of your legs, abdomen, back, side of your torso ... and he needs to do it very gently (like the wings of a butterfly) capice !!! Kissing is an art, try hard to perfect it. (again very gentley) Time allow a long time ( depends on you ) how inhibited are you ? Your mind is the most important thing, if anything is blocking your ability to have an orgasm, it will be your mind. Learning to let GO !!! That might mean you have some issues ... (religion can affect your ability to have an orgasm, any negative connotation that is associated with sex ), past trauma ... get my drift ... How do you really feel about your partner ? Is he sensitive ? Is he gentle with you, is he clumsy and heavy handed ? If he grinds your vulva thinking that it is turning you on, when its not, well you need to be able to communicate this to him. If everything is OK in the mind department you should not have too much trouble having an orgasm. Lots of gentle kissing and lots of foreplay, allow maybe 9+ hours ( yeah that is how long it took me and my partner ) The plan should be to increase your sexual tension until the point you explode ! You both should think about anything that will improve the sexual experience, hygiene ... Don't expect anything initially it takes time. In my life I have only ever had the priviledge of experiencing orgasm with a women -once in my life.
...and it's unlikely you'll find one your age. Possible, but unlikely. I actually didn't know there were any other kind of orgasm but whole body. I guess it must be because I love sex so much (and pleasing my women).
