I hate to say it... but he is probably cheating on you. Sounds to me like he just doesnt have the balls to tell you and is intentionally trying to sabatoge the relationship. Why dont you talk to him about it? Dont just say "are you cheating on me", as the answer will always be no. But talk to him about the problem and suggest that you maybe should see other people. If he cares about you it will scare him and he will straighten up. If not, well then you at least dont have to torture yourself any more, and you dont have to walk away feeling dumped as you were the one that suggested it.
i know most people might think that he's cheating and that a lot of girlfriends will defend the guy..but i really dont think thats it. its not even the fact that hes a good person, but its also that he doesnt have the time. when hes not at work..hes at school..when he's not at school..he's with me. he's also very traditional and watched his parents split up because of cheating..im almost 100% sure thats not the case. either way, thanks for your imput.
Hey LaLa, I'm actually afraid of offering my opinion because it seems that there could be SO many things going on... I don't even know where to start. I understand that many people are EXTREMELY insecure about themselves, especially about their sexual life. With a man, a typical situation is for him to feel responsible for the pleasure of the woman. I would say that maybe he feels pressured, but when you explain that the sex was excellent, that seems to go out the window. Perhaps he has discovered something about himself that he doesn't like, or maybe, he is telling the truth when he says that he has a problem. It does not even have to be a disease, but maybe something as common as an inability to feel aroused. Just because he is/was able to get hard does not mean that it was easy for him to ejaculate. I mean... did the sex ever seem even a tiny bit prolonged? Just want to open your eyes to the fact that there are several sexual problems that one can encounter, and many are very easy to hide. Or perhaps he is deeply depressed. In this kind of situation, you are going to find that you can only get so much help from other people. The only way to really figure this out is to get him to open up, or perhaps even pay close attention to the tiny details. Does his life seem fulfilled? Don't include yourself in the answer. Does he have many friends? What else has changed in the time that he stopped wanting sex? Have you seem him naked since then? Has he let you? Again, the insecurities arise. Just remember that it really may not be you. And pay close attention to detail, get him to open up however you can. Best of luck =]
get a house maid or a nurse outfit and if that doesnt work something is TERRIBLY wrong ha..... seriously tho.....do try it
He doesnt want to be with you. Your story (which I didnt even want to read cuz it was too long, but am bored at the moment) is the exact story as me and one of my x's. And I didnt want to be with her and yea, I might have cheated a couple of times
LaLa86, just wrote me this. HAHA I didnt mean my post as rude, I just simply said her "man" is doing what i used to do with one of my x's. Thats all. Don't take your anger out on me, maybe you should take it out on someone else
TransAm that was a pretty lame response if you ask me. You didn't even read her post, but you felt inclined to give advice? Hi, I don't know anything about football, but I'm going to coach the Dallas Cowboys. Yooo Lala, to me it sounds like he's depressed. What that requires is motivation on his part, but I think he also needs to be aware that his brain chemistry might be messed up. Sleeping all day only exacerbates depression. The best way (in my personal experience) for someone to get out of depression is to go travelling, when you travel, you have a "fuck-it" attitude. If you two go out and start having fun, he'll realize that he's probably just down on himself for no reason. Its like, you may have to force him to go with you the first couple of times, do random shit, get him to stand up for himself in front of strangers or something. Anything you can think of to boost his confidence. But, like I said - its going to take motivation on his part too - its one thing to know, its another thing to believe. I could be very wrong though. But those are my thoughts.
Yogi, your an idiot. Stickin your nose in other peoples stuff. Your the lame one with you bringin up football on a thread that has nothing to do with it. What did you do, look up my post history and notice that I like the Redskins. WOW, checkin up on me...Glad to know you like me that much. Go ahead and coach the Brokeback Mountain Cowboys. Im sure you'd fit right in...YEEE HAWWWWW
Wow transam... Get a life.. don't waste our time with this shit. How is YogiZeon sticking his nose in other peoples busniess? Your the one who displayed your business for the whole world to see.. Idiot. .. Anime sucks.
I will. Cheer up, there are other guys out there, there could also be a reason he doesnt want to, it doesnt have to be cheating either. He could just be insecure about many things, like his penis size, he may not think he can please you, he might have a premature ejaculation problem, he may even be depressed :shrug: talk to him about it. ask him why he doesnt want to have sex, he could just be waiting for the right time my money says he is insecure.
