K...I've read some stuff on here about making out but I don't think that would be appropriate. How the hell do you make out any(snog, whatever). I have some idea, but I don't know whats standard or anything. 2 days ago Ialmost made out with this chick,but I got scared and backed out. That was akward. Help!!! :hysterica
First off....relax! Just start slow, some kissing maybe a few caresses. If you play music make sure you (and her) are comfortable with, but keep it nice and low so it doesn't distract you. A good way to start is kicking back watching a movie (ask her what she wants to see)....slowly put your arm around her...snuggle close. Your "instincts" will kick in, and so will hers. Again, relax and go slow. Kissing, whispered tenderness, caressing her face with your fingertips....and so on. Fresh breath is a good thing! Have some breath mints handy Oh, and trim your nails so they don't snag anything. Everyone is nervous and awkward their first time....don't feel bad.
I agree with everything she said. I do want to stress the fresh breath advice, brush your teeth and tongue just before and offer her something like it like mouthwash or breath mints so she won't be self-conscious of HER breath. One of the first kisses I got I was left with the impression of relish, the condiment, not exactly romantic and highly unexpected, I kept shying away from the kiss. Breath and odor (yes even odor down there) is among the most common mistakes rookie lovers make.
Thanks I get what your saying with instincts and such, but what exactly should I do? Just stick my toungue in? I don't want to freak her out. Should I just start lightly kissing her?
Making out is a relaxed thing, you just need to be slow with your tongue. When making out you don't just hold your tongue in her mouth and move it around, you do it in sections. Pop-kiss, then gental/smooth moving tongue for a second or two, then some more kissing... it's quite the art actually. When you get a little more experienced you can nibble the bottom lips and stuff, making out is great fun.
Some of the most passionate kisses I have had did not involve tongue. Just a thought.... You could always let her guide you.... Basically ya try something and if it works keep it, and if it doesn't move on with something else. It's not brain surgery Some of my best make out sessions were filled with laughter because one or both of us tried something we had seen or heard about and it didn't work out as planned. When I was first making out we didn't have the Internet to find out how to do it. We just did it..... The idea of "just do it" seems to be working well, as homo sapiens have been around for a LONG time So, again just relax and let your instincts kick in.
It's best when you suck her tongue into her mouth. Don't let go, even when she starts screaming. It's always worked well for me.
don't take any advice, dude. If you're gonna make out with a girl, it has to come from you, not someone telling you how.
Well, actually I'm thinking of just telling her I've never made out before. I just don't want to look like a dumbass. Or make her uncomfortable by sucking her tongue untill she screams and starts punching me.
really man, when it happens it'lll just come to you just be gentle dont slobber... ive made out with guys who slobber all over my face not good. but dont worry so much about it and when you are dong it don't think about it, like... how am i doing? is this okay? Should I do this? If you think about it too much its not going to go well. you just need to relax... and if she's more experienced then follow her lead
