my "boyfriend" broke up with me cause of my drunken stupidity last night.

i dunno how many people read this shit.. but.. yeah here. lol

okay so, technically he isn't my boyfriend. he's just a friend. and we're just dating. but we're not going out..

anyway we've been dating for about a month now, and last night was my birthday party, for turning 19.

stupid me decides to invite a guy i had a fling with a month before i met my 'boyfriend' - just to chill out as friends..

so when that guy arrives, he brings me to the side, to do what we used to always do, like flirt.. and stuff..

i was debating in my head, should i be doing this?... technically im still single.. but im dating,

and this guys really hot right.. so i made out with him for a little bit, but then i stopped after a while and said, no - i can't do this anymore..

then he said.. alright then im going home (what a douchebag.)

by the end of the night.. my 'boyfriend' says i wanna talk to you.
and he says.. i'm very dissappointed in you...

i guess word got around or something, or maybe he saw.. i dont know..

he was all like - theres something going on with you and that guy, and that guy, and that other guy.. and that other guy

so we were walking back to his place..
and by the time we got to his backyard.. he was like ... okay. you know what? it's over between me and you..

i was crushed. cause i like what me and him had. we had chemistry...

and i tried to tell him that nothing happened.. and that they meant nothing to me..

does he have the right to be angry? since the only reason we aren't going out in the first place is because we both like our freedom.. yet he still gets angry if i flirt with other people...

or am i just a complete dumbass...

 

Well I’m a little disappointed in you too because you didn’t punch that guy in the head for calling you a douchebag. I figure maybe subconsciously you are trying to make your boyfriend jealous
and a bit of advice stuff like that usually backfire. Cheers!
PS: Happy belated Birthday

 

well, you weren't exactly sensitive or considerate. that would be a BIG warning bell to just about anyone. so yeah, i think you got caught out by your own insensitive and thoughtless behavior. just learn from it and move on. all isn't lost yet, and so far as social no-no's go, it's not such a bad one. but it did hurt someone. that's on you. but fuck, you're 19. who DOESN'T fuck up when they're 19?

 

one person in the "relationship" will always develop stronger feelings than the other.. if you just kissed then yes he is over reacting a tad. you still shouldn't do that esp when he is at the same party.. party foul..

 

does he have the right to be mad? yeah. is thereh a chance that if youre patient and apologize, that hell forgive you and you two can date? yeah. depends on how you two deal with it

 

Of course he has that right.

No, not necessarily

 

I say that was a very very stupid move...getting cocky enough to kiss someone else when the guy you are seeing/dating is there? Wow-stooping to new lows in my opinion.

Whether you're dating or not-if you had some sort of commitment and you know he's been faithful and loyal to that commitment then it's wrong. If you know he hasn't had an eye for anyone but you, then it's the stupidity of you.

I hope this is a lesson learned-you may have just lost something great

 

Thats why you have to decide if you are with someone or not and you need to make it clear to them. Otherwise shit like this happens.

 

ouch, that last line bruised me...

 

no, no - i'm calling HIM a douchebag..

and i had no intentions at alll to make him jealous, i really care about him. i was just having fun, and its just that when i get drunk... - i dont think before i act. and that always gets me introuble.

and thanks...

 

Thanks for clearing that up and your welcome. Cheers!