im 21 and all through high school i was single because of a skin condition and no girls wanted to get close to me. Now im all good and my skin is back to normal after 5 years and now i want to go find a girlfriend! problem is i have never really hung out with girls and i dont know how to talk to them. Where can i meet a nice girl, im tired of bars and the internet any suggestions?
Dippin - find a social organization to join where there will be a lot of females your age. You will have common interests in the social activity, and things to talk about. Dating will flow naturally from that. Your skin conditiion gave you low self esteem, but tell yourself that you are a new man now that the condition is cured, and that today is your first day as a sexy hunk.
brother you can meet women anywhere you are. i'm always talking to people around me when i go out, some men and some women. you need some practice that's all. when you go out start talking to strangers and don't worry about the whole man/woman thing just yet. don't put any expectations on yourself and keep it casual. get comfortable with this and your confidence will definitely go up. when you're ready for the next step, you'll know it. good luck!
The trick to talking to women is simple; be respectful and be natural. Women are intuitive, and they'll know if you're simply acting a certain way to try and get them to be at ease, and in turn, will have the opposite effect. Just be yourself. That's key. If you're being yourself, you will be more comfortable, and that will put them at ease because they won't think you're trying to score with them. Another key point is not to try and be something you're not. If you're calm, quiet and subdued, don't try and act like an alpha male, brooding and strutting. Be yourself, and the ladies will come to you! I may be way off base, though. It has always worked for me, but, really, you never know.
