I dont think my gf is very experienced in a sexual relationship, when she is masturbating me she does it really really hard and causes my dick to get really sore, i dont fink she realises this but i dont want to say anything as it myt hurt her, so girls whats the best way to mention this to her??? thanks
well u have to tell her cos we can't read minds... of course u have to go about it with sensitivity so as not to hurt her feelings. first use some lube so it'll be not so rough on you. tell her how much you enjoy being with her but tell her this is how u like it done and show her how u masturbate. Hold her hand throughout if u must until she gets the hang of it.
yeah deffo show her, real turn on watching ur partner masterbating just say to her "this is how i REALLLY LIKE IT" and show her get her to try it, then do same with her masterbating and u trying it, its great and a real good time too good luck let us know how u get on
Show her how you masturbate yourself, and then ask her to show you how she masturbates herself, and agree that you will each try to copy how the other does it. When you show her, make sure you are gentle on yourself, so she gets the message. A lot of guys really wack off aggressively, so she may just be doing it like other guys want, but you are different and have to teach her what you like.