So, im kinda really pissed right now...

OK
so when my sister was my age (infact , younger than me) she got to bring her boyfriend to meet our family, and they had been dating for like a day.

Me on the other hand, I never get boyfriends.
Ever.
And my parents know this yet they continue to be evil sobs about it.
When I finally get a boyfriend, I'm like never aloud to see him. No matter who it is.

I finally get a boyfriend that I like and he likes me and he's not a dick (the other 3 were) and so i ask my mom:

"Can I bring Tyler to Sue and Kenny's on Saturday?"
"No."
"Your letting Alaina bring Dana, so why can't I bring Tyler?"
"Because I would never have let your sister do it."
[[LIAR!]]
"Yes you have. When Alaina and Nick first started going out. When Alaina was 14. I am 14, I see no difference here."
"Ryann! No, just shut up about it!"

Note: this was the first time I had ever asked her about it.


So, I do as anyother 14 year old would do. I get pissed off, go to my room and turn on some heavy metal. Then, I start coming up with a list.

This list will hopefully really piss them off [also i wanna do these things]

-Sleep in my coffin (i made one downstairs and they wont let me do anything with it)
-Wearing black make up and clothing again
-Start skateboarding again


This list is going to greatly piss off my parents that they will hopfully disown me.
Heres the list:
[I actually want this stuff, but i wouldn't get it if they hadn't started being so retarded.all of this shall be done once I'm out of the house and it will be easier to be disowned.]

-Get a vertical labaret
-Get my bellybutton pierced
-Get my nose pierced
-Gage my ears [down to 0]
-Get a pentigram tattoo on my chest [not really to piss off my parents, but a wiccan thing]
-Get an Oak tree tattoo on my back
-Get the cancer sign on my side
-Get a flaming heart with a 23 in it
-Get a tattoo of a roll of ducktape [ i love ducktape ]




Any objections?

 

Yes.

 

and that is.....

 

I guarantee you in five years you'll hate any tattoo you get at fourteen.

 

It isn't so much that there is one as that there are many.

 

maybe you're parents think they fucked up when they let your sister bring her boy friends over. maybe they think you aren't mature enough to bring one over. maybe they don't like your boyfriend or how you act when you have one around....

as for pissing them off, don't buy into that goth bullshit.
if you wanna rebel, at least be semi-origional about it (wearing clothes you bought in a mall to rebel kindof hypocritical and dare i say conformist), go religious (or political)-nut on them. religious is better, cause they'll leave you alone but not worry so much.

whatever you do don't get a tatoo.
you'll think it looks ugly two weeks after you get it.
and it's positive id for the police.

edit: the coffin sounds kindof cool, as long as you keep the lid open (or drill some air holes in it atleast), and don't sleep in it too often (it could fuck up your back).

 

you want to piss ur parents off so that they would disown you ? thats really mature....you re really gonna show them...
why do u wanna bring ur boyfriend anyway ? I am 18 and my parents wouldnt let me bring him either. I wouldnt even dare to ask.

 

Why do you want your boyfriend and family to meet?

seriously, examine this, think about it.

further, I don't know if this will be of much use to you, in regard to your list, but, honestly, if I had a time machine, the VERY first thing I would do, before I went back and played with the time line, before I bought stocks, before meddling with the past, or borrowing technology from the future?

I would kick the 14 year old version of myself's ass.

I was a moron when I was 14, and, honestly, I thought I was pretty bright (in theory, I was pretty bright, in practice was where the idiocy pervaded every bit of my life)

Don't make life affecting decisions at 14, unless you plan on staying mentally and emotionally 14 forever, your head is not on straight yet, no matter how much you think it is, I know you hear this a lot, I remember hearing it a lot, and thinking people just didn't understand my unique view of the world, or they had just become old, stupid, and surrendered, but, totally straight with you, I was a moron.

 

i feel the same way about my 13 year old self.....granted, that was 3 years ago, but it seems like a lifetime. my experiences have REALLY changed me and i realized that things can always get worse than you think they can. i will probably feel similarly about myself 3 years from now, but at 13 i was straight up retarded with no common sense whatsoever and i cant understand why anyone associated with me. to the op, at least your issues dont entail being sent to a mental institution, or like one girl i met there, being beaten on a daily basis and forcibly prostituted by your father to support his crack habit. that kind of put things in perspective for me, and so did being arrested twice by the time i was 15. i'm not trying to be condescending, but in a few years you'll be able to look back and see the same way we have. i'm not much older than you, but in our teenage years people tend to grow up fast.

 

you are being really immature about this whole thing .

 

I agree that it is completely stupid that your parents are treating you that way just as much as you do - but just (and I'm not trying to tell you what to do, but simply what you could do to expand your thought process) try thinking about maybe *why* they are doing what they are doing. I'm guessing that your sister is the oldest girl in the house right? Well maybe your parents have since then ('then' as in when they let your sister have her bf over) have considered that they were wrong in doing so - maybe for some reason something wrong happened or so on.
I agree that there are things that parents do that are re-friggin-diculous - my parents seemed the same - but everything they do is really just to do what they think helps, or is the best for you. It doesn't even matter if you think that what you are doing is good for you, because when you are younger your parents will think that because they are older and have experienced more, that they will obviously know more than you, and in some cases this is true. However they don't know everything that you know, and you don't know everything that they do - so all these disagreements are really just misunderstandings for the most part.
Yes some of the things that parents do is unfair, but if you think this to be true, bring it up to them, but try to be calm and use diplomacy (by empathizing for both sides of the story) and try to compromise by agreeing to some of their terms and trying to convince them of some of yours and if they still disagree, don't hate them - thats the worst thing you can do, and believe me you will regret it when you're older.

And to the people who are claiming that shes immature - um... shes 14!! how mature do you think you all were when you were 14?? I know I was just the same as her! give her some slack and maybe offer some advice before you just judge her and make her feel horrible about herself! she hasn't done anything wrong for her age and situation!!

 

When you were 14 did you recognize you were immature? there is a certain arrogance that comes with the ignorance in that slot of time that makes it all the more dangerous, keeping someone aware of their actual mental state, keeping them objective, is something that, sometimes must be done when people have lost their own objectivity, this girl appears to have drifted from objective, and so, external objectivity is being provided

though it may not be your favored tactic for dealing with things, clearly some of us have reasons for it, my own being, if I had someone external restoring my objectivity, I KNOW I would not have done some of the stupid things I did, I am trying to do fo, what others did not do for me.

 

I agree completely! I thought your post was amusing

 

nah, I recognized everyone else was =P

I was never immature in such a way really, I was mostly only immature as far as social relations and how I labelled things

you make a very good point though.
....
I just wanted to talk about myself, this post is pretty useless =P

 

Somewhere along the way I got old. No I didn't, but I gained some wisdom. First off you said PARENTS? Do you have any idea how lucky you are. You have two parents, step or whatever, they care about you. They Love you, with that Love comes wanting the very best for you. You are 14 years old. I am sure you are a bright, lively, adorable young lady. Five years ago my Daughter was 14, I know what boys at 14 are about. Visits were supervised. Don't think your pulling anything over on your parents. Some things we choose to look the other way for. It allows you to grow. You may sneak out from time to time and get away with it, your parents have taught enough by now to get back safely. Be 14 for now, enjoy your time with your boyfriend. In a bit you will be driving, working and so many other things that demand your attention and responsibility. I hope your parents help you earn a car and the insurance needed to use it. Don't stay mad. You can disown your parents, but I know they will never disown you. If that is your choice rent for a cheap, dirty apartment is about $350.00, Ramin noodles, milk, T.P., personal care and cheap soda $50.00. Electricity $75. Your a pain, it's your job right now. Give your Mom and Dad a big hug, don't bother to explain why they'll know. Oh and just be you, your unique just like everyone else.

 

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