Why do guys cheat?

After 20 beers, everybody loses control there shooter. Combine that with the gram and a half of coke I was high on, and well, I wasn't the nicest person around. Just because you drink responsably doesn't mean everybody does.

Actually, to be fair, I was a pretty horrible person from about 14 to 20.

 

Don't call me shooter.

And I've drank more than 20 beers and maintained control. I've drank a bottle of booze and maintained control.

 

Soo 100,000 children are born into this world either thru separation or divorce and the younger you are the more likely your marrige will not work out!

I'm not sure the exact number i read in one of my texts but the number was quite high. Around 500,000 ppl get married and 350,000 ppl get divorced and 100,000 kids in the middle. SAD SAD SAD . If you want me to get MORE stats i can do so BTW that was from a organization not made up if you want me to get facts i will do that . Cheating goes both ways ... no matter the precentage. I know i am not one of those ppl. I am a very faithful person with too big of a heart to ruin my children's and husbands lives and the ppl around me. Theres absoltely no excuse for such bullshit

 

nah...you prolly just haven't met the right bad boy yet...the one who makes you want to be slapped around, mistreated and turned into a used up single mom no decent man would want.

 

People cheat...not just guys...it just depends on the person you're with...sometimes you get lucky..sometimes you get a broken heart...you can't group all guys together and answer the ever puzzling question, "Why do men cheat?" some do...some don't...even someone with good intentions can make a mistake, or need something you can't give...u just need the RIGHT guy...improbable to find him...not impossible...

 

Then get off your high horse.

 

My horses isn't high. You're just crawling on the ground.

 

A lot of guys are afraid to be alone and instead of ending the relationship first they want to make sure they have something lined up. It's just the way they are.
If they're ongoingly cheating and trying to stay with you then they are just freaking dirty.
I guess the best way to solve this would be to end things when the relationship starts becoming a chore and sex is like doing the dishes for you and mowing the lawn for him. Unless you're married then you just have to suffer.

 

I bet Bella's man will never cheat on her. And I know why. If you're worried about your dude cheating on you, talk to Bella and figure out why her man would never dream of cheating on her.

 

exploding chastity belt?

 

and sometimes it depends on the cheater, there's ppl, such as sex addicts, who cheat no matter who they're with and what they have.

aren't alot of girls the same way, afraid to be alone, have something lined up. Well most anyhow, I prefer being alone that's why I'm afraid of being in a relationship.

Let's not accuse one sex something that the other sex very well commits on a nearly equal basis.

 

I really dont know but were not all that innocent either. My boyfriend sort of cheated on me threw myspace with girls that either dont exist, that are form a different state, or sometimes people i know. I told him if i find out one more thing im done, i think its so fucking retarted. It would hurt me so much if i caught him again but i honestly would break up with him because i dont want to feel like a total idiot everyday for the rest of my life if i stayed with him. It would be really really hard but it would be for the best. I would rather break up and not get hurt than stay in a relationship filled with lies and betrayal and get hurt everyday. But im not innocent either. I kissed a boy who i knew and even though it was a 2 second kiss it still hurt him and i felt bad for what i did but i did it once, not twice, once and now i dont hang out with anybody, i dont go anywhere except school and then home, and i really dont talk to anyone. My love for my boyfriend is so strong that i would give up anything for him and i hope he knows that. But i guess what you should really be asking is why do guys and girls cheat? not why do guys cheat.

 

Yup, that's life and, my 16yo friend, you have a lot to learn about it too.

I take to task that 'pretty much everyone cheats.' They don't, period. Pretty much everyone who says they'll be faithful, are. A smaller percentage cheat and it's not exclusive to guys either.

Sweetheart, you're beautiful and, from the posts I've read, a great person. You will find that person who will dedicate his life to you only. Stop seeking out the type of guys who cheat.

 

hahaaaaaaaa. You're right he would never cheat and I would never dream of cheating on him. Our realtionship is ratehr perfect unless he's away from work. But, he's getting out in August to fix that so I'm not bitching

 

NO!!!!

okay well only on sunday's

 

I was kind of seeing this guy who I found out was on drugs really heavily, lied to me all the time, and had a girl who was supposed to have been his fiance for 10 years! I dropped his ass, but it did hurt to know he had been such a coniving lowlife.

 

cheating is such a controversial topic...
i cant explain why ppl (yes and not only guys, thouh they do this surely more often) cheat
but i think the most acceptable and right way is tell honestly rather than lie

 

hmm

 

IMO, people cheat because they want to be single, but can't break away from the security of having someone at home, IMO people who cheat are weak.

Screw the whole 'we are all just animals' bullshit. The thing that makes us different is we all know the difference between right and wrong. Its natural to be attracted to others, everyone is, that is human nature, however, that doesn't excuse immoraility.

Men and women all cheat for a lot of the same reasons, there is something missing at home, but in most cases I would say the biggest problem is a lack of communication, one person is afraid to be truely honest with their partner, or their partner just doesn't listen/care.

Personally, I think if more people had the balls to follow through and walk away from someone if they refuse to communicate or attempt to fix what is wrong in relationships, cheating would simply not be as big of a problem as it is.

 

Depends on the person....

Some cheat to fulfill a "need" that they feel is lacking in their relationship

Some cheat to hurt their partner

Some cheat just to see if they can

Some cheat because their relationship is in a slump

Some cheat to have some "strange"

Some cheat to feel validated as a sexual person

Some cheat because they feel like something is missing in their life

Some cheat because their partner is unwilling to compromise (ie: "NO WAY! I refuse to do that!)

Some cheat to end a relationship

Some cheat to get caught

and the list goes on and on.....

If you ask someone why they cheated you never know what their response will be. I have heard some pretty outrageous reasons over the years, some of them I could even relate to (not justify, but understand why). Cheating is wrong, not just morally, but more so physically. The diseases a person can bring home to their faithful partner should be enough reason not to! Sadly, it isn't.

As far as who cheats more, men or women, it is actually not a staggering difference(60% men to 40% women) and getting closer as more women enter into the workforce and become more independent.