Why do guys cheat?

The time I cheated, a long time ago, the reason came in cans in packages of 24.

 

I've never lost control, no matter how much I drink. People that blame infidelity on alcohol are just trying to avoid responsibility and make excuses.

 

peopel cheat because
the sex they are getting isnt satisfactory/isnt there
they no longer carea bout their partner
they think they can get away with it
they like the idea of the taboo/breaking the rules
the "other" person offers them smething their partner doesnt, ie compliments, inflates ego, does a sex act the partner wont (oral anal bdsm whatever), makes them feel desireable again, etc

generally... from eithe ra lack fo caring about their partner or because they no longer feel appreciated/are having their needs met at "home"

 

That's right ladies. Better put out more for your boyfriends.

 

... yeah, cuz guys -never- turn women down for sex, nor leave them feeling unappreciated nor have a factor in any of the othr reasons i listed

 

Not the sexy ones, anyway.

 

all of my bfs have, at one point or another, turned me down at least once. stress, exhaustion, being busy, etc... it happens to guys too. most at least. im just happy i finally found a dude whose sex drive is higher than mine. but this is getting off topic. men can drive women to cheat just as women can drive men to cheat

 

Okay so you've been turned down at least ONCE by every BF for sex. Um. Okay. Being turned down once is a lot different than being turned down for 2 months.

 

of course its different. im just saying, it happens, that some men will turn women down for sex just as some women turn men down for sex. just because we have the stereotype of all men wanting sex all the time doesnt mean its true

 

i have been turned down for a whole week straight... cos i over-sexed him.

 

Unfortunately, honor doesn't mean anything anymore(society accepts it now, even expects it) and people are selfish(as long as it feels good for a second who cares who it hurts). Doesn't have anything to do with gender. Most attached men/women cheat with attached men/women. Keep your head up, we are all looking for that 1% if the other 99% would do you could just grab anybody.

 

Wow.

I've never been oversexed.

I don't think it's possible.

I was with a chick one time and we had sex every day for at least four and a half hours a day for 2 weeks. She gave up trying to sate my hunger.

 

he was a superb lover and y'know they don't come around often so when they do I like milk it for everything he's got, guess I milked him dry that time.

 

If you're having trouble finding a guy who's good in bed, maybe you should try to communicate your needs more.

 

ay i do

 

i dunno. why do girls cheat?

 

Cuz they're whore's! That's why!

 

You know I just realized. Of all the girls I slept with, only 1 was good in bed, but she turned out to be psychotic.

I think she was good in bed because she did whatever I wanted her too. That might sound kinda selfish but I like to do things that really please a woman, like certain sexual positions most girls are "too scared" too try.

 

In American society, the mainstream is simultaneously obsessed with sex and wholesomeness. It's fucking confusing. If you're a woman you're expected to be highly sexed for your man, but if you're a single woman who likes sex and is highly sexed, you're a slut. It's stupid as hell. In my last relationship, the sex was great for the first few months. We really did love each other and stuck it out for 2 years despite our sex life turning dry - we got along and had a lot of fun together, but we'd go months without sex. It was never one person or the other's fault. We were in a lot of financial trouble - he moved from his home town to live with me (his own decision, I did not twist his arm and offered to relocate for him) - he wasn't very adaptable and had a hard time keeping a job for too long. This made him feel "less of a man" as he would put it, and he had a hard time wanting sex because since he felt he couldn't take adult responsibility. The funny thing is, he could look at porn every day and masturbate, but when it came to our relations, he wasn't into it. He insisted that it wasn't because he wasn't into ME or wasn't turned on by me, I was always willing and ready to make love with him and always would try to initiate it, and he always had an excuse. Needless to say, the relationship didn't work out. We're still good friends, both still single, and we fool around sometimes. Now that we're just friends, the sex is great when it happens (once a month or so we mess aorund) - I'm wondering if the pressures on us at that time while we were living together and trying ot make this serious relationship work under financial stresses had everything to do with why our sex life diminished. Well, anyway, after both of us had gotten over our breakup and realized we make better friends than lovers anyway, we were hanging out together one night and just started making out and fooling around. We had a talk and both made it clear that it's okay for us to do stuff together and just be friends. If one of us were to be in a relationship with another person, of course the sex would have to stop, but our friendship will still remain. It's kind of an awesome thing to me, really. I'd rather sleep with someone I know than some random stranger. We like the same stuff sexually and we have fun together, so why should it matter that he's not my bf? One of my female friends is very sexually conservative while I'm more liberated about it, and she thinks it could damage my psyche if he were to find a gf and we were no longer having sex. Thing is, I can differentiate that it is just sex, separate from our friendship. Two friends who when we find ourselves together and horny, well, we do it. It's not a big deal to us, so why should other people find it offensive?

 

nevermind, posted in wrong thread