He was known as a playboy, you know the kind of guys who want to date like 100 girls the sam day. And now he is dating my best freind. well he looks pretty in love but I dont know, I cant trust him. So are there signs, when a guy is cheating on his girl? and how can I know if he really loves her, or just wanna be with her because she is pretty, smart and very special???? tx.
well I dont know, he is cool and everything, but lets say she was blinded by love. I mean this guy has lots of bad stuff in him, I mean in his personality.
well, he is immature, and not spiritual at all, more like materialistic, and I think they have nothing in common, He even told her to stop talking to a very close freind of hers just because he was jealous.
well, you know...one of the ways people mature is through their relationships. she just needs to set reasonable boundaries and stand her ground. this is something you have to do in all relationships. it's up to her to decide if the relationship is worth the trouble.
In my experience, he will blow you off or make up a lame excuse not to hang out. He will talk to female friends excessively. He will distance himself a little bit (almost unnoticabely- he too probably dosent realize its happening) and basically keep you at an arms length. He will be nice to your face and re-assure you over and over he would never do anything like that to you and he cares and all that junk. But all you can really do is follow your gut feeling.
Ahhh fallen for the ole' bad boy, has she? Gotten a little case of the leather jacket sweats? She'll be the one to change him, eh? Doesn't matter what he was like .... A FEW WEEKS AGO. Blinded by love. I love it. Guys like that make life much easier for the average joe.
I don't really mean anything pertaining to your question. What I did mean to say was that those 'bad guy' guys give women a little perspective. You'll notice it more when you're 27-35 and the divorcees begin to roll back into life. The guy cheated before? He'll probably do it again as soon as the honeymoon period is over. Some cheats take weeks, others take months. I'm more of a months cheat, so maybe your friend is lucky and the guy is similar to me.
lol She's fallen for a player? One of those "dominant male" jerks who get all the girls but treat them like shit, and the girls eat it up? Sorry she's stupid, but it's her fault, really. Well, I guess not. She's a victim of biology, I guess. I hope she gets her heart shattered. It'll be good for her, and then maybe she'll pay some attention to the average joes who would actually treat her the right way. Probably she won't learn until she's in her 30's. By that time, hopefully there's still SOME average joe/nice guys who haven't become bitter and resentful of women. Anyway what's wrong with not being "spiritual"?
Well. to answer you Confuzzledone, there is nothing wrong with not being spiritaul but the matter is that this girl is very spiritual, I dont know may be she did cahnge him. anyway she told me to stop giving her advice about thier relationship because she said that I was making her suspesious about him and she doesnt want that. She wants to take the risk said she.
Yep that is correct. I am no longer in that category. I might pretend to be a nice guy only to suddenly become the asshole, and then turn back into the nice guy. I almost made a girl cry one time cuz I kept pulling the switch. Well that's what she gets for saying "awww how cute" when I was up front and honest about wanting to be with her. >
Take her advice. Your friend needs to make her own decisions, even if you think it is a mistake. There is nothing wrong with dating someone not normally your "type." She could be with him because he makes her laugh. Maybe she wants the rush of dating a bad boy. All that matters to her right now is she is enjoying it. That's how she should feel. Broken hearts suck, but it isn't your job to keep your friends intact. People get hurt, and the move on....it's just part of life. You never know who will be "the one" until you get there, but you should have fun trying to find out.
