Hi peoples reading this post What I feel the need to share is that I'm currently searching for a boyfriend that is my age - 18 or 19. This is a big deal for me because I've only ever had serious relationships with older guys (ie 5-10 years my senior) and I've recently discovered that I was disillusioned as to what an older guy can offer me. Correct me if I'm wrong, but I feel that with older guys there isn't that honest excitement brewing inside of them when intimacy comes around, like there is inside myself. I think I've been forcing myself to grow up too quick. I want a boy that's a little less mature and fun loving. Whoa. I'm excited. Natalia
Most of the time when an older man is interested in a girl your age their intentions are less then pure no doubt. Glad to hear you are growing up.
The "older guys" that are into you don't know how to get women their own age. In fact, they've never known how to get women their own age; when they were in highschool, girls like you probably rejected them and turned them down *all* the time. Now that they've gotten older, they've finally figured out how to get a girl your age, and they do it, over, and over again. It's some sick karmic situation.
Just because a guy isn't 18 doesn't mean he stops having fun. Trust me, a 30 year old guy can be absolutely thrilled about intamcy. Hell, a 50 year old being offered a piece of ass will still feel a thrill. Growing up doesn't mean you stop having fun, but it does mean there are responsibilities. I think what you are looking for in a guy is someone with lots of time for you and wants to have fun. Nothing wrong with that, but don't assume older men lack excitement, they don't.
another cunfuzzled post by confuzzled odviosly these facts are all in your head i'm 40, & have gotten plenty of amazing women both older & younger i have no prefference however now am with someone 1/2 my age but have had incredibly deep passionate relationship[s with women several years older many times.. age means nothing & im not just after sex or whats easy, in fact i refuse to get involved in anything thats not deeply respectful, emotional, loving & passionate, the women id be with, wether20 o5 50 im with for 1 reason, love & respect, mutual admiration & the complete package and trust me we have fun..fun like you wouldnt believe but we also have so much more then just fun... what good is just fun without respect? without care? & without honnesty & everything else that makes someone valieable? hell..my 20 year old gf & i were together a month or more before she even thought to ask my age & was really surprised when itold her, cause we never really thought about that as important i dont know why were even discussing age, since only individual personalities & how they relate & intermingle are important 1 guy, any age, can be a fuckup just like so many others, just cause 1 who was older was less then genuin or less then passionate doesnt mean all older guys are, & certainly does not mean that everyyounger guy would be better each persons unique, & those qualities are not age specific..an assholes an asshole no matter how many years hes been an asshole & vice versa
