Another confusing thing.

I am me. I am still the same me whether I have a car, a high paying job, wear fancy clothes, or dress in rags and hitch-hike from state to state.

Almost every time I got laid (except for one time), it was either a chick I didn't care existed, was openly rude to, wasn't my first choice so I ignored her, was an ass to, etc etc. They practically jumped on my cock.

Every time I was nice to chick, particularly to a chick I liked, I never got laid. I always wound up being friends.

I'm a confident dude, whether or I'm nice or an asshole.

So what's going on? I had a chick one time tell me she wanted a nice guy. And I was like "you're in luck. Here I am." and we flirted for a few days, and then she got with some dude that was an ass to her, used her for sex, and then left her crying. She tried to cry on my shoulder and I was like "fuck no, I ain't a rebound" and then she cried even more. I pitied her, but felt no sympathy. It was her fault. But then she openly started to persue me! God dude, if she really wanted a guy that would be nice to her, she shouldn't jumped on me in the first place. But she wanted me twice as much when I was an asshole to her! WTF?

 

That is crazy. A lot of girl like a "bad boy" in other words the guy that has the swagger and attitude that he can get any woman he wants. So he can talk to them any way he wants and a lot of ladies who are into that kind of thing love that shit. Those kind of girls sometimes think that a good guy is going to be to easy and she will walk all over him so she does ever want to go there. I have fell in the "friend zone" my share of times so I know what it feels like. Its just I have to make it known early what I want and I'm not really trying to do that buddy buddy shit long. Its also a lot of women who would REALLY love to have a nice guy and are hoping to meet that guy one day. So it will be coming to you soon.

 

i'd like to see what your idea of 'nice' is after readin all these posts.

 

Nice women or men? I guess because I'm a hopeless romantic. I'm a firm believer in there is somebody for everybody and everybody will find the perfect one for them one day.

 

i was talkin to the op....but i think you got stars in your eyes, hon. good luck.

 

No need to get smart. I was just trying to get an understanding of what you were saying. But whatever.

 

didn't think i was...but whatever.

 

Oh man, girls can be so bitchy sometimes. I dont know what anser you'r looking for, but all I can say to you is; BE YOURSELF.
one day you will meet the one (I know you'v probably heard this like 100000 times but it's true)

 

You might just be hanging out with the wrong crowd or at the wrong clubs, or you may be going for the wrong girls without noticing it?

I totally ignore assholes.
While I become "friends first" with the nice guys, but i never jump on a cock as you put it
If i'm interested, they can wait

 

I cant stand the girls that like "bad boys", its so ridiculous tbh.
I consider myself a nice guy, its only right i want a nice girl to.

 

Well, I've played both gambits. Nice guy, and asshole. I definitely got laid more being the asshole. In fact, I actually got laid, period. Being a nice guy will get you friends, but younger women go for those assholes cuz they turn them on (and women won't even be able to tell you why, but men have figured it out).

Older women love me, cuz I strike them as a "nice guy" cuz I'm courteous and polite and not running game on them. They're tired of getting fucked'n'chucked by assholes, and are now looking for a calmer dude, to "settle down" with and who may take care of them emotionally. I ask them "Where were you when I was single and lonely? Oh yea, fucking that other dude." and then tell them where the exit is.

 

hmmm I'm 26 and my fiancee is 34 and he is def a nice guy. I don't do the whole not nice guy thing. My pet peeve is guys who are assholes, but pretend to be nice and then wonder later on why I turned into such a bitch and try to call me on it and ask why I don't appreciate them...hmm prob because there's nothing to appreciate. I find it so amusing now because my fiance said I am the nicest person he has ever met and I tell him how grateful I am to him every chance I get.

After dating the wrong guys for years I thought I had come to the conclusion that I would just be single for life and have a blast dating and I was totally happy with that until I met him.

 

Yep, your behavior fits the pattern.

 

got everyone all figured out do ya? what pattern does your behavior fit?

 

oh he does, lemme post something from another post...

when u generalize u reveal so much about yourself...

yet your women only wanna bed you 1-2 times/month.
I can understand maybe 1 or 2 with a low libido but all of 'em, c'mon you don't give me much reason to have confidence in your love-making abilities.

 

The angry enlightened or maybe the walking wounded?

Not really. But your reaction and harassment reveals a lot about you!

Kindly point out WHERE I said my girlfriends only want to have sex with me 1 - 2 times a month. You can't, cuz I never said that. Thank you, have a nice day, you just got put back in your seat.

 

You're so full of shit. You don't know what you're talking about.

 

Thank you come again.

 

I have dated some very nice guys. I have also dated some assholes and my point was that I treated them as such. I'll put it in guy language...Would you treat a whore the same way you would treat a nice girl you could bring home to mom? No you wouldn't, but the slutty girl serves a purpose for that moment. Why wouldn't you think that girls do the same thing with different qualities?

 

your whole time here you've done nothing but harass us and complain how you can't get or keep a girl who puts out...
see [thread=262951]thread 262951[/thread]

a generalization that goes along with your suppose experience.