I give up on love

Well. I was going out for 4 months with this girl Im still in love with, yesterday we broke up on the phone because she's been feeling confused these days about the love she has for her ex that she hasnt seen for 2 years... although she says she still loves me and all... But today she's been talking to me like nothing happened, and like we're perfect friends, she cried on the phone yesterday but now its like were the bestest friends for her, shes even answering her friend from vancouver who asked her 'if there are any men in your life right now' and she answers with 'no, and i dont mind '.

Like what the fuck man... do all girls give up on love that easily? once they get what they want they just break up and are happy as ever before?

This is a bunch of bull man...

 

The trick is to not worry about love, especially at 17 years old. Just go out, have fun, and get as much pussy under your belt as she can.

How old is she man? This chick is obviously mind-fucked. She's just gonna drag you down. Leave before it gets worse. Better yet, leave, and act like you don't even give a fuck about her. Be a bit of an ass to her too, if she pursues you and wonders what you're doing. Don't give her what she wants, which is an emotional dumping ground or security blanket.

 

you know what man. this all makes sense, she's fuckin sipped all my energy, she sees me sad over the break up, and that makes her feel good, that gives her well-being, she's happy to be there on the top, and me in the bottom feeling like crap. this is natural humain fight for energy... I know perfectly what to do man... tomorrow for my bday when she comes over, ill act fuckin alright man... ill be ironic ill be weird ill be acting all goofy and happy and high, ima sip that fuckin energy i lost right back to me... fuck man. i cant believe human relationships are like this. a fuckin conquest for energy, for power, you gotta make someone else feel like crap to feel good and sadly this is todays world

 

Better yet:

Tell her you can't hang out. When she asks why, tell her you're going over a friend's house, when she asks who, say "you don't know her...", or just openly say "sorry, I got a date." and then don't talk to her for like a week. I guarantee she will try to jump on your cock. You can either forget her, or use her state to get some pussy and then forget about her. But, no matter what happens though, she'll never admit it's her fault for being a bitch, so forget trying to make her feel guilty for anything she does. And you shouldn't feel guilty, either.

 

you're such a player. :tongue:

 

I'm not. But I know how to be and it sickens me that women are like predictable little animals.

 

come over here, boy...i'm gonna spank your ass for that.

 

its all true. i ended it, i told her that this relationship sipped up all my energy and that i cant see her for a while because i just wanna feel better, thats what matters most to me now... seeing happiness again... and i already feel much better... we'll see. after a few days a friendship could be possible... but for now... this relationship has just been a quest for more energy, and she won and she's proud. but now I think she's not that proud from what i told her... she really wanted to keep seeing me, but fuck it man.... i cant let myself get stepped on and let her on top ....

 

oh and she was a year older. shes turning 19 soon

 

but man. please tell me the older girls in their 20's aren't like that. once satisfied they give up on love... if so, how the fuck are people suppose to form families and get married? when I love, im loyal man. i mean, i dont hide the love behind a bunch of illusions, then get tired, love is a natural feeling needed for reproduction... but once u soak it up with your imagination and desires no wonder chicks get tired...

And on top of it all, you know whats the crappiest thing... nice guys never last man... im done being a nice guy... fuck it, girls are gonna have to fight for my attention, im not opening myself up nicely to anyone again.

 

women are such bitches! kill 'em all!

come over to my place, honey...i'll make ya feel better.

 

Women don't get better until they're in their 30's.

Then, all the girls that wouldn't fuck you because you weren't good enough now suddenly want to hook up with you because you're "stable".. and they usually figure that you'll settle for sex once or twice a month because you're so desperate for it you won't leave a regular (albeit low) source of sex.

Better to be a player.

 

lol yea man. i think im gonna start being a player. ill see what happens in a week with that girl... if she still wants to see me then ill accept some more sex

 

Just remember to wear a full body condom.

 

i thought you were against condoms...

 

I am- for myself.

But I recognize that using a condom is good advice.

 

hypocrite!

 

how is it that the actions of a single girl represents the entire female population as a whole. Don't take it out on all women based on what 1 girl has done, esp. a teenager. Keep in mind this is not exclusive to women, men are just as guilty of the same thing.

the world's population is 6+ billion strong, many have kids and are in stable relationships in their 20's, there's your proof that not all women are like that.

I understand you're upset but that doesn't justify this vehemence against women.

 

ahhh I was right, you do have 0 seduction skills as is evidence that girls in your experience only want to have sex with you 1-2 times a month.

OP if you want a decent sex life don't listen to the Confused One, he's got the love-making skills of a baboon. Better to read The Art of Love Making. May not need it now but it'll come in handy down the line.

 

Actually you don't know anything about my seduction skills. The chick I was living with for a couple of weeks picked me up.

And you know nothing about my love-making skills, thank you.

Nice personal insults just because you don't like my opinions. Very mature.