Ok, I'm starting to feel better about it. Just marital troubles. I told DH about it and his reaction was a luke warm "Oh...that's good BUT...." and then he goes off on this rant on how I'm a crappy housewife blah blah blah. The same stuff he always gets on me for only the timing was just CRAPPY. So I've been feeling kind of foolish for allowing myself to fall pregnant when our marriage needs so much work. The GOOD thing is I finally got DH into couples therapy and I think he finally wants to work on things and make things better. So. I guess I'm getting happy. We'll see.
*hugs Jayzz* Sometimes, guys just don't GET IT! Especially, when sometimes your whole world is your husband and child, hearing how you SUCK in relation to your whole world, it's not something that should be said anytime, especially when you're newly pregnant with hormones all over the place. And guys, they just don't get it. Kudos to you two, caring enough about your marriage to go to counseling. I'm sending lots of good thoughts your way. YAY for new baby smell!
Umm yeah, because he obviously isn't 50% responsible for the situation ... men can be so stupid. Anyway hope everything works out for the best.
You know, HE'S the on that wants the 2nd so dang much! I was half heartedly going along with it (stupid, stupid, stupid) and finally got knocked up. After like, 6 months of little to no whoopie. I AM happy, I LOVE my baby already, no doubt about it. I just want things to be perfect for my children you know? Don't want them to have the screwed up childhood I had. Thanks for all the lovely thoughts and congrats!!
***big hugs*** I know exactily how you feel. When I first found out that we were pregnant with no 2, I was happy, and so was hubby. But then I started to get depressed and I couldn't figure out why. Cody and I have our issues, and I was just in general feaked out about having another child when our life was pretty hectic with just one....even though we had talked about wanting another baby, just like you guys. As time has gone on, my feelings have changed. Now, I am just soooo excited for my baby to be born (4 more weeks.....arg!!!!) That's awesome that you guys are in councilling (sp?), that's one of the best things you guys can do to get some of these issues worked out. I try not to forget that almost every, normal couple argues and that's just life. Granted, it shouldn't get out of hand, especially in front of the kids, but I don't think I know a single person who doesn't remember their parents arguing once and a while, and many say that they come from great homes. I don't know what you guys argue like or what about, but unless it's every night and there's objects being thrown and people being hit, I don't think that it's anything that probably can't be worked out and you don't need to worry about it screwing up your kids. I hope that didn't just sound like a whole bunch of blabbering.... *hugs*
Thanks Kyrsten! And Freek! Finally somebody who understands! Things are going to get better. I told hubby that I'm really emotionally sensitive right now and I think he got it. He's been super sweet to me the last little bit, which helps. Counceling is WUNDERFULL! Although, he's getting a little twitchy and trying to back out. My foot is down on this issue! He's going and that's that! Oh, we do try and only argue when squirt is asleep.
