I'm IN LOVE with a free lover, and need help.

I'm in love with this girl named Carrie, she belives in free love and I'm not to sure on it, any advice?

 

Josh,

This sounds like a major bummer of situation for you, and I can relate to some extent. I can almost guarantee that the free love thing will bother you because you already said it does. I think for the free love thing to work out the way its supposed to noone involved can have an inkling of an objection, and you obviously object.

Buddy, it sounds like you've beaten yourself up loads over this deal, just like I did my first year in college with the first person I truly connected with. Anyway, I think this girl is trying to satisfy her all her wants without really having consideration for you. I mean, she has sex with other people but has to know it bothers you and plays the "i love you" mind games. I think you should let this one go to sea and keep looking. I know it feels like severing an arm right now, but there are plenty of other amazing people to know and see.

Peace

 

Hi
What a story! All i can tell you is to be true to yourself. You can't choose who you love...but you can choose not to let them hurt you over and over. I know it sounds shitty...but sometimes love isn't enough. Don't get me wrong..sometimes it is all it takes to make things right. To me, my heart is a giant house with millions of rooms...theres room enough for everyone...i can love endlessly...but at the same time...when you love someone truly...you automatically think of them first...without a blink, without a thought to yourself...Does she love you the way that you love her? Also, do you want to go down the same road twice? You already know where it goes...life is full of amazing people, beautiful inside and out...You just have to ask yourself what you can live with and what you can't...but whatever that is...how you feel is never wrong...who or how many you love is never wrong...For me, I want that one special person...I want to do and say, and feel things that I don't with anyone else... but love if its real...is love plain and simple...do a little soul searching and realize what your feelings, heart, and love are worth...someone (maybe Carrie) will realize it too...peace

 

I'm not sure if this is true, but I laughed so much! Thanks. If it is true, that is what it's like when people sleep around, people get jealous and hurt.