Me and my GF have tried anal (on her) and it seem like something all ways goes wrong or it just doesn't workout. We've tried lube, one time I cut my penis with my nails trying to get it in, some time it hurts her, other times she said I'm goin in on the wrong angle. It just seems like nothing goes right any words of wisdow out there. This is for later down the line we can try anything til she says so, and I'm just fine with that.
Sorry about your experiences man, First of all, was this is first time she ever did anything that involved anal? Because if so you might just be too big for her right now. It might be something that she has to work her way up at before she can have the right type of ass for it. Not that she needs some insanly big hole (or maybe she does if your huge) but the muscles need to get used to it first. Hope this helped man.
Try different positions. Personally I don't like anal from behind, but put me on my back and I am all for it. So, try putting a couple pillows under her hips (cover them with a towel if you want). Once she is on her back you have open access to her pussy and ass. Slowly play with her and tease her.....you know the rest
To Lizardd: this is her 1st time trying any anal. To His Eden: I tried asking her that we should try different positions but she doesn't.
hey man try one of those soft plastic but plugs first to ease her in to things, after the bigger things will get easier........some things just take time
I have the same problem. Except for the cut my self part because I bite my nails for some reason(I know its a bad habit). The most far I have got was half way in and then she said it just really hurts her and she isn't feeling any joy. She said its because I'm really wide. So is there any way I can make it better for her and not hurt so bad. Because we both want to keep trying every now and then to spice things up but it always turns out bad and kind of kills the mood because of the pain. Is it because I always try to do it doggystyle and she doesn't really relax?
I would say that it could be caused by position,her not relaxing, and her not being used to the size. Read my origional reply. It takes time. But it is worth it.
After reading that I see what you are saying. One of my problems is I'm kind of impatient. Because when you are so used to the ease of the vagina and then go to this its frustrating. Then when you watch it on porno flicks they make it seem so easy LOL. Next time we try I will tell her to lay on her back. But I want to do it because I heard girls on these forums say that they have had some of their best organisms from anal.
MY GF want try it because of that mostly and its something new to both of us that only me and her share.
I had anal for the first time with my bf not long ago...and now I love it. He used lube and fingered me for a while first though... Hes 7 1/2 inches and thick..and Im not a big girl myself..what worked best for me was to be on top of him, facing him...once the tip is in...just go slow...relax..and take it a little at a time...then once its in good just chill for a minute...once i got used to it...omg!!!! rode it hard!!! and loved it!!!!
