trouble at the helm

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by bassaholic, Sep 12, 2004.

  1. bassaholic

    bassaholic Member

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    Hi this is my first post here. With my current girlfriend about the only way ive gotten her off consistently is by grinding against her clothed or not. NEVER DURING SEX. She always tells me her clit is too sensitive to be directly touched so i have a hell of a time with it. Espescially after my last girlfriend was always begging for oral. So i guess my question would be what are some good ways of indirectly stimulating her clit? She almost refuses to give me any advice or guidance, because everytime i ask her for it she just kinda looks around and says i don't know or blows off the question. she and i are 19. She is/was a big masturbator before i met her for at least 5 years. Knowing that led me to asume she would at least be aware of what she likes. uh! it's like talking to a brick wall, I'm just bothered over the difference between her and the other girl i was with before her. woman are so difficult, and my being male doesnt help, ha.

    thanks in advance
     
  2. MEltingpOpsicle3

    MEltingpOpsicle3 Member

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    man that really sucks, just sit her down and say we got to talk, some people are just really shy when it comes to talking about sex and what they like. Just tell her whats on your mind. help her relax about it
     
  3. bassaholic

    bassaholic Member

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    thanks for your advice. ill keep asking, nicely of course, what i can do for her, hehe.
     
  4. whispers

    whispers sweet and sour

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    ......yeh she knows how she likes it. Just tell her how important it is to you, that you are able to please her. Remember to take your time and don't rush it, making luv takes time.
     
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