Best way to find a 3rd person?

Discussion in 'Free Love' started by Angus Royal, Apr 15, 2007.

  1. Angus Royal

    Angus Royal Member

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    My girl and I are considering taking the plunge and having a threesome....whether it be another boy or girl isn't important.

    What's the best way to find a 3rd person?

    I don't really want to look in either of our groups of friends, too much hassle and risk of ending up in tears.

    So it's either go out and try to pick up as a couple or post an ad on a personal site.

    Anyone else had experience searching for a 3rd person?
     
  2. lace_and_feet

    lace_and_feet Super Member

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    I don't have any advice for you as my boyfriend and I have been looking for a third person (male) for quite a while without much luck. But I'll be keeping my eye on this thread in hopes of some advice for myself. Good luck to you.
     
  3. Angus Royal

    Angus Royal Member

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    I think personals are the way to go, at least both parties know what they want and can control the situation. If we tried to pick up at a bar the chances of finding anyone willing would be fairly slim.
     
  4. paleale

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    It's not easy. Me and the wife have been trying to find another girl but no luck so far.
    We had a friend that we were having sex with for a little but that that ended. We still talk to her but no sex.
     
  5. dangermoose

    dangermoose Is a daddy

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    Hmmm seems like a tough call, perhaps you'd have better luck finding another couple as opposed to another single?
     
  6. lionman80

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  7. fexurbis

    fexurbis Member

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    Gosh, you guys are such wimps. I've already tried the personals and all that, and hardly got a reponse from couples...


    It's pretty easy, believe me, if you're talking about males. All it takes is initiative.
     
  8. fexurbis

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    In fact you gotta be pretty clueless not to find a 3rd person in the case of males. The whole reason why it is so hard for males to enter the exclusive ranks of swingers and other libertine communities is that there is an excess supply of males seeking non-commital sexual activity in comparison to women.

    Try and figure it out, duh!
     
  9. RawAndNatural

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    Adultfriendfinder worked for me, seriously!

    there's swingular , and swinglifestyle also. Heck, your girl could pick up another girl or guy in public somewhere's. The problem is the risks involved. Swingers get tested more often and have fewer stds.
     
  10. delman6

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    My wife wants to find a black guy with a big dick and have him take turns fucking us in the ass. Anyone here from NC that would be interested?
     
  11. cheryl_is_blonde

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    When I was married, my husband would take me out and have me flirt until we found a suitable guy. I guess because we just were looking for straight guys, it was easier.
     
  12. thumper37

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    ok oick what way your going go dude chick whatever we only swing with chicks or toat swap no dudes for me any way whoever is going pick go to club or what ever kind of place you like to hang or be around do not rush it may take days weeks dont rush main thing and when you find the one person talk to eachother if you both want them then discussion with that person so here are some tips if that dont work rent porn
     

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