question on dating a pregnant girl...

Ok well i met this girl i really like alot shes pretty and well i mean shes pregnant so shes not the hotest girl out there. But i got alot of signles from her and we have good conversations...2 questions is would it be a good idea to date a pregnant girl on account of my age? or date a pregnant girl at all?

 

You're 14? And how old is she? 13?

 

shes 17 im 14 witch is usually the age i date in...

 

So... You're 14 and she's pregnant at 17?

Right... Is this the same girl you were interested in earlier?

 

I think if you start a relationship with her, you need to be prepared to be a partner to her and be prepared to stand by her when she has the baby. It can be an emotional time when you have a baby, especially if this is her first, and, in my experience, one the most one of important things a new mother needs is stability.

If I am being very judgemental about the situation, I would say at 14, I don't think you're old enough to stand by her and make that sort of commitment, but I don't know you, you could be very responsible for your age.

Maybe you could remain friends with her until the baby comes along, and see how that changes things and if you still have the same feelings for each other.

Just checking - this is someone elses baby, right? How do things stand between her and the father?

 

Travis,
I dont care how mature you think you are, you are NOT grown up. The very fact that you would even come in here and ask this question proves this. Obviously I cant control your actions but if you choose to date her be prepared to do a lot of growing up, REALLY fast. You simply can not be selfish in a relationship like that, and at 14 I dont believe you can even comprehend what that means.

Im not trying to be mean, Im just being honest. I am speaking from personal experience here.

 

Being a 17 year old female, while I find it sweet that you want to help her, she really needs someone who is emotionally mature enough to help and support her. Remain her friend and maybe in the future when things with the baby settle down it might be a better time to try to have a relationship

 

At 14 I would have to say that dating a pregnant girl is a bad idea. It's hard enough for people in thier 20's and 30's because it is an instant family.

Stay friends....it will work out better for you, her, and the baby in the end.