and argue and get vehement DOES NOT MEAN for one moment that i don't LIKE YOU. people so often expect me to change my behavior based on how i feel about them. i don't function that way. i've tried to change it, it just made me passive/aggressive. there's any number of people i've gotten shitty with. what you need to understand is that i can get that way with my MOM. i care, it doesn't change my essential acceptance of you as a person, it's just that when i hear bullshit, i call bullshit. that's ALL. and i expect the same from you. if i deservedly get an ass-chewing, by gum, i KNOW IT. i accept it. i'm okay with it. i don't expect people to be so petty to disallow any relationship. we're all family here. you're my people. let it GO. i'll argue with you 'til the cow come home, and if i'm wrong i'll admit it. but not for one second will it change the fact that once you've won a position in my heart and soul that you've lost it. we just have to hop over a few rocks in a river together. that's NOTHING. it's just a river, after all.
I don't care to have thoughtful discussions with people who don't feel strongly enough about their opinions to support it. What's the point?
ahah..K.C..nice statement..well..I'm not pissed.. some folks are getting easily pissed..others are not.. the difference goes in 1 word..tolerance.. an argument is an argument..I've had many in my life.. I don't have any problem dealing with an opinion.. often folks don't say what's upon their tip of the tongue.. they are double faced like so many of us.. if an argument hits someone..the big majority stays silent.. come to Europe and judge for yourself..and then compare.. I've been in the U.S.A.as well..I even visited WTC in NY.. the whole world is stolen land..right??aboriginals in Australia?? tribal folks in India??even Belgium is stolen land..:leaving: K.C..you rock..are you still pissed??ahah.. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tT7TJi2Rk7c Tiger
you're pissed at me??!!! what?!!! oh no :bigcry: my world is over what the fuck am i to do now??!!! i'm gonna go sit in a corner crying until you're not pissed anymore i'm sorry :bigcry:
who's pissed at who??:leaving: are the parents of an American G.I.. killed for the good cause of the U.S.A? pissed at Bush??or at their country??
Some disputes arent worth even getting into.....so i just leave .....and if i dont have anything nice to say to someone...i just dont say anything at all...but thats just me , how i do things. I might state an opinion...but i try to be kind when im doing it....call it kissing ass if you like , even though its not...its just kindness and respect for other people and their opinions.
What happened? Is this completely random? I dont really agree that its best to say whatever you like if that's what some of you said (meant) because of course I merely scan each post.*chuckle* For one person its ok to rip someone's head off for another it causes them to be ostrisized for being too aggressive. Depending on the mood of the forum, or the "clique" at the particular moment attitudes change. I would never expect you to chew me a new asshole, and would be hurt if you did. HOWEVER if a random spammer/kid said some shit about me being ridden hard and hung up wet (its been said before, cant you see its still in the forefront of my mind) then I'd just let it go and it wouldnt bother me one bit. (maybe a little) When some of you peeps get all, then I can get all too ... I'm human. No... robot. Oh whatever. laynice: This makes no sense. Anyways I like when people stand up for themselves assertively and dont name call or ridicule people. Like on Wife Swap yesterday oh that was good stuff....
I stand up for myself but I also pick my battles. If it's not important.... I'm most likely not gonna say something. I don't really stress things other people do....