Blow job follies. bad talk = dog house.

I met this girl great, we went out a few times, great. we were out for drinks one night so I asked her to come back to my place for some more drinks.. we get to my place drinking and are having a good time..

we're both laughing and getting closer to each other .. were on the couch and I asked her to give me a blow job! great..

wrong! she makes a joke and brushes the idea off so she asks me to take her home and I willingly comply no questions asked home ok i'll take you....

so the next day comes around and she wont return my calls .. then I get a call saying how could I ask her to do that and all this really Bs kinda talkshe is 23 by the way...

I guess its not proper to ask for a job these days.. now im in the dog house.. any thoughts ?