tell me something dreamweaver; what is the POINT of not being happy? its so much easier to smile ((smiling releases happy hormones too. try it ))
I was taught to never use that word...I usually never use it and when I do it's usually not used in a serious way. For a long time though I don't think I EVER used that word, lol
...........man I hate it when these threads just go on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on.
Dreamweaver, nobody can give you a reason to be happy, unless you want to find one yourself. I don't know your situation, but i think if you can decide that you WANT to be happy...you will soon find a reason to ~ To me each human life on this planet is a reason to be happy, however misleaded they may be...because they all need love. We all need love. I don't believe that people are bad...they just need healing. We all have one reason to be happy and that is to keep our heart alive. aho
Maybe wanting people to be happy is foolish, it certainly appears to be when some people seem so determined to hold on to their anger. Maybe it would be smarter of me to be depressed and hate the world and call other people stupid for expressing their opinion on something...and yeah maybe I'm stupid for having hope. You don't have to listen to me though. And I can choose not to listen to you, or be bothered by you. It's an amazing free world, isn't it? So, thanks..... for your valid contribution to my free open-minded thread I hope you have a good journey down your path and that you find guidance when you need it.. peace brother
I think hatred is a perfectly healthy and natural feeling. I think if you don't ever hate someone/something then you don't truly love it.
I won't refute the importance of hate. After all, it is one of our emotions and its not human to suppress those....But at the same time its our attatchment to our feelings that causes pain Anyways I didn't say I didn't like the feeling, it is natural and its just a part of life. I just said I don't like the word. I was just being silly, really...because what else would we call it? And if we called it something else, whatever it was, it would just be another word but you should try to start saying to other people and yourself "I don't like something..." Try it. It feels good. I think its way more honest because you can't choose to truly hate something...just like love.. anyway, also i don't like it when people express their opinion as if it was fact....i think we all tend to do it sometimes but I've definitely been aware of it lately and its kind of annoying and stuck up to think that you know something when you really don't. Maybe this is a fault I'm finding in myself and its just got to come out now so don't feel im coming down on anyone but me. We can always learn from each other p.s. - I hate mosquitos