Question bout my new girlfriend

Iv just stared seein a girl, who iv been told she is a virgin, i havent asked her because i dont think its my business asking her about ex boyfriends. But i was fingering her the other night and i found it tight with just one finger in, so im really worried that is we do have sex its not going to be good for her and she might be in pain. and i dont want it to be like that for her on her first time if it is her first time.

Any ideas please everyone.

Thanks

 

be gentle don't get carried away make sure she is very wet.....and make sure she feels loved very important

 

yeah, be very gentle, use a lot of lube, and don't be afraid to ask her how she feels

 

foreplay foreplay foreplay

 

I used KY with one of my x's (she was a virgin) and it went just fine

 

when the time comes for sex, do you think she will tell me she is a virgin then?

 

Just be gentle at first, start off slow, if she seems to be enjoying it then go a little faster and use a lot of lube if you cant get her wet before you guys do it. If you both have strong feelings towards eachother then that will make the sex 10 times better so show her that you really do like her and you care about her.

 

If she cares for you she should, but then again I can see her not telling you so you wont think she cant "do it" right.

 

shell tell you if/when she feels the need to

 

If she masturbates regularly using a penetrative method, such as inserting a dildo or vibrator, then even if she's never been with another man, she may not be a 'virgin' in the sense of the hymen being intact.


Also, you don't say whether you are a virgin or not. Your questions imply that you are. If this is what experience do you have to know that how she feels is any tighter than the average vagina anyway?

 

nope i aint a virgin, i have had 2 other sexual relationships in the past. so she is very tight and i ended up having sex with her last night and i came within a 1 minute, i couldent last long whatso ever we had been havin foreplay for about 3 hours tho.

 

Wiggy - if she is a virgin, she may still have part of her hymen intact, or she may just be tense about having a finger placed for the first time inside her. Once she gets more relaxed and really aroused, she may get wet and be more receptive to receiving your tool inside her. Or you can give her a good lube first. You want her first intercourse experience to be as pleasurable as possible, although many females find it painful.

 

somtimes girls are just tight. theres this myth that if a girl fucks alot she will be loose
but that takes alot of big dicks like that lady that fucked 300 men in a row.
my girlfriend has had just as much sex as any other girl and she's so tight it somtimes hurts my fingers! she didn't belive me till she got a pap smear and the nurse was like
god your tight! and she had to use the smaller tool to scope out her inner reigons(lol)

 

Ok so I've been with my girl for about 9 months now and the first time I tried to finger her it was almost too tight for one finger. I don't have a huge penis about 6.5 in and for the past few months weve only been having sex about every 2 weeks. I am aware that a vagina will adjust to the penis that it is having sex with. But that's only during regular sex and I can hardly say every two weeks (if I'm lucky) is regular especially for a 20 yr old. I have noticed the last couple times we did it that she is not very tight at all anymore. Could this be a sign that she is cheating? And should I mention it to her?

 

You just have to take it easy and slow.
Ease her into it first.

 

this is how my friend caught his girlfriend cheating.
"honey, why are you so loose?" is a good way to pop the question. the facial expression will tell all. otherwise, you'll get a slap.