How do you forget....

the one true love of your life, when they are burned into your mind and heart forever?? What does it take to move on when deep inside you don't want to move on, because moving on means saying goodbye to a part of yourself.

Sorry that I'm rambling tonight...it's just been a hard night, and I need to get it all out.

 

Take that love-feel it. Grow from it. I love plenty and I know that feeling.

Somtimes you need to let go to keep that love in your life- sometimes you need to let go to grow as a human. I don't think we ever move away from love- we adapt and loves creates.

 

How do you forget your one true love? Well, you don't. You can't. Keep all the good memories you shared close to you, and distance yourself from the bad. Down the road when the pain is gone you will think about her you will only remember the good times and what fun you had while it lasted. Thats what I say anyway

 

You're absolutely right. Love is perhaps the most complex feeling a human being ever experiences, and it may not always make sense, but all things happen for some reason.

I just hate feeling this emptiness inside. I have alot to live for, and look forward to, but it always seems she is never far from sight. I miss her so much. Love sucks sometimes.

 

live and let live, i'm sorry you're feeling like this
i honestly can't speak to anyone about this without being hypocritical
i really have no idea what love is
i'm sorry tony i hope that it gets better
if it was true love, if it was the one it wouldn't have ended like this

 

well in my case...I moved with the help of the greyhound bus & 5 months later he died

 

If someone really is "THE ONE" then it WILL happen. Whether its now, tomorrow or twenty years from now, if it's meant to be.....it will be. The thing is most people will find a few "the ones" before they ever find THE ONE.

 

I keep telling myself that jess, it's just not so easy to convince yourself when you get swept up in memories...

 

See that's kinda how it is for my boyfriend of 2 years. He was married to his first love for almost 4 years, but she died of cancer 4 years years ago. And I love him soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo much. See, he's my first love and sometimes I wonder how he takes it day by day to move on and love me you know. Sometimes he has his days where he just wants his life to hurry up and pass by so that he can go home and be with her, but then there are other days where he loves me. And I(sigh) enjoy every second of it!

 

if i know anything i know that
{{hugs}}

 

I say just don't worry about if it is or was the one. Take what you feel and what you felt and feel grateful. It's the best feeling in the world and always has a lesson if you can past a possible hurdle.

 

She was one in a million to me. And she never truly believed that she was deserving of me, when I believe it was the other way around. All in all, we are both human, and made mistakes along the way.

I would still give anything to be by her side. She believed when we ended things that I would move on and forget all about her. The truth is her absence has only made it tougher for me to accept the fact that she is gone.

 

How long has it been?

 

we haven't spoken since February. That's why almost everyone responds like, "what's your issue, move on already!" It just hasn't gotten any easier.

I guess I felt like there was never any closure, because of the way things did end. All I know is I wish I hadn't hurt her either, I never wanted that. I know that she never meant to hurt me. Things happen that we wish we could change, but you just can't undo the past.

 

Did you tell her exactly that?

 

She has broken all forms of communication with -almost- everyone outside of her family since then. We do share one mutual friend, whom we both still communicate with, but he will not push her to contact me against her will, which I respect.

I just wish there was some way I could tell her, it may make all the difference in the world.

 

Time.

Trust it.

 

Yes. Time. Patience is a Virtue!

 

Thank you guys. You make it a little easier for me, at least I get the chance to get it off my chest this way.

Love you all.

 

You don't forget. But in time it'll get easier and easier and you'll fall in love again. And probably again. Life goes on. You don't forget and you'll probably never stop loving her either but it doesn't mean that you can't move on and love someone else too.