well you are going to graduate which is very cool...also i think you have learn alot by your post........ seem like you have did alot of growing up which is a very good thing..... well loneliness is really a aweful feelin maybe you will fine someone who will really love you
Advise: Stick to the books, and if you meet a new guy, don't sleep with him for a few weeks. Then you might find someone to LOVE and who loves you back. Just a suggestion............
just move forward. regrets solve nothing, i wouldn't even feel guilty about your number of partners. that's the past. it was a different you. give the old you a mental hug and say goodbye. clearly you were looking for something that you didn't find. now it's time to start looking for something new and with new eyes. it's a whole new life! and you've got some incredibly deep insights and new motivations. that's great!
its the "naughties" and anyone can do what they want as long as it doesn't hurt anyone. I say take it easy, don't jump into bed with the next guy just because you can, do it because you have feelings for the guy & no doubt you'll start to feel better about yourself. But if you do choose to sleep with the next guy thats your bizzness and no one should care other than you.
Eventually honey, it gets easier. You're a great person without being loved by a man - so now is your time to prove it. Go on and shine. Take a deep breath. In and out. And start believing that you deserve to be happy with yourself without having some dude's love. You don't need love to make it through another semester. You need to set yourself up for success and part of that is putting your past behind you, the other step is biting the bullet and and getting ahead with your own goals and priorities. Make it happen. You'll feel better about yourself when you do and the loneliness will seriously just melt away.
Don't cha just love the people who come here, make their first post and ask for advice / help, then don't bother to return and comment on the replies they received?
no problemo, good luck for you, and nevermind when we get cranky here. i do it all the time, too. *shrugs sheepishly*
Whatever, Appatently I struck a nerve. By the way, why delete your post? There wasn't anything wrong with it. And the commenting on replies thing, it isn't a rule, just common decency. Why would I post something like that? This forum is, by definition, a two way (or more) conversation. I feel that if a person asks a question, and they get an answer, they should acknowledge that answed. You sounded like you wanted an answer(s) so not commenting for two days just made your post look like you were trolling, that's all. Sorry to have offended you, but hey, you aren't going to agree with everything that everyone says.
